Hello there :-) First of all, I really appreciate you taking the time to read my humble request. I will get straight to it.
I had a relatively good but average life. I worked a good job and had some money saved in order to buy my house. I lived with my parents and was good with money, so I was doing a great job of saving up for my goal.
I met a man in 2019, who stole my heart. We hit it off and started a relationship. He was self employed but struggled sometimes with making enough money to support himself and his children. I believe I am a very kind, caring and empathetic person and so long story short, I ended up spending all of my savings on him, financially helping him almost each month and giving him a large amount of money each month for a few years.
Now you may be thinking that I was or am very naive doing this for him, and that may be so. However, he is a very intelligent man; I would even consider him a genius. He was also super ambitious and had all these big plans to eventually get rich. So, because of the intense love I had for him, the future I saw with him, and my belief in his future success, I helped him out with the hope that together, we would make enough money and my sacrifice to help him would be worth it.
Eventually, my savings finished and he started using my credit cards. Stupid, I know. But again, I had faith that I would get all of it back in future.
In 2024, I became pregnant with his baby and my first child. At 5 months pregnant, I found out from the other woman that he had been cheating on me since 2021. That devastated me. I ended the relationship and had my baby but I was over £20,000 in credit card debts.
I am now in a large amount of debt, and I am nowhere close to my dream of eventually buying my house, especially now with a young baby.
I am so ashamed and embarrassed of what I have done, I have not and cannot even tell my family and friends about the situation I have put myself in. They would be so disappointed in me as they would have expected by now that I would be in a position to now purchase my own home.
My baby’s father has not abandoned me, however we are no longer together and he still is not any better off financially and so is not able to help my clear the credit card debts at the moment.
You may think it was my own foolish decisions that led me to this point and you would be right. But it was all down to me being a woman in love, believing in her man and wearing her heart on her sleeve.
Thank you so much if you have gotten this far. If you choose not to help, I thank you and wish you all the best. If you do choose to help, I thank you from the bottom of my heart and appreciate any help that you are able to provide, no matter how big or small. I wish on you, all the blessings that may be available to you.
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