Hi! My name is Theresa, and I am reaching out to you with a profound desire for a brighter future for me and my boys. At 54 years old, I’m embracing a time of transition, facing new hurdles that have altered our circumstances, all while envisioning a bright path forward for my family.
My youngest son, Jacob, is 13 years old and autistic. He is a happy and beautiful child, inside and out, who wakes up with a smile every day and goes to bed with one. His brilliance shines through in his many interests. Despite the challenges he faces, he is intellectually curious and his knowledge of every country, their capital and flag, as well as the heights and floors of all the largest skyscrapers in the world, astounds everyone. He has even created a Wikipedia-like website, with no direction or help, that includes over a hundred pages of different people, pets, places, and things that he loves. Jacob is homeschooled, which allows me to tailor his education to his unique needs and passions. His autism prevents him from attending regular classes in a public-school setting.
My middle son, Troy, has selflessly devoted his life to caring for Jacob while I have worked. His dedication is a testament to the strength of our bond and the values of love and responsibility I’ve strived to instill in my children. Troy is the kindest person and perfect son with so much promise. He is gifted intellectually, but his life’s been on hold for too long and I want so much more for him, especially a higher education.
I am a smart, loving, and even-keeled woman who is the “best friend” to all my friends, and the one they lean on for advice and wisdom, news, to vent, or to shed a tear. My boundless compassion often leaves me vulnerable to emotional exhaustion. I haven’t always followed my own advice; choosing men that didn’t make me and our lives better but brought us down, living “for the moment” and outside our means, etc. Although my adult relationships have been few and I haven’t dated recently, I’m eagerly looking forward to marriage one day and providing my sons with a strong male role model. I’m a person who thrives on adventure, enjoys exploring new cuisines, cooking, and has a passion for sports like football, basketball, and the Olympics. I also have interests in travel, business, AI, true crime, and I find joy in playing board and card games, as well as in continuous learning through reading.
For 30 years (mostly in Big Law firms), I have worked diligently as a legal assistant and paralegal, solely supporting our household. Many of my previous co-workers and bosses are now life-long friends. I’ve always made a decent salary ($70-85K the past 15 years) but I recognize that I need to make more money and will never be able to achieve the financial stability I desire with such a restricted income. Some health challenges of the past few years, exacerbated by the stress and financial strain of COVID-19, have made for some difficult life changes.
I was forced to leave my job in October after the firm I worked for required a return to the office, which was financially unfeasible, as I had moved out of the city where my job was based due to our monthly housing costs going from $1800 to $3,000. I had been with the firm for over 15 years (1996-2007 and 2019-2023) and been working remotely for 3½ years. With heavy credit card debt and no car (to cut costs), I have moved in with friends for the first time in my life, amidst the uncertainty. Unfortunately, I do not have family to go to and I have now depleted my 401K.
Despite these setbacks, Jacob has always inspired me to envision a future where we can explore the world together, learning and growing through firsthand experiences, as we have done (just on a much smaller scale). Fortunately, we are all healthy and physically fit. I am an entrepreneur at heart, equipped with a great work ethic, exceptional people and computer skills, and a determination to create a thriving future for us. Remote work offers me the flexibility to support my family while nurturing Jacob’s educational passions. Although my current living conditions are not ideal and are so out of the norm for me that my creativity is not at its best, I’m a perpetual optimist and am enthusiastic about building a business. What I lack are the resources to break free from the constraints of heavy debt and financial insecurity.
Your support can empower us to rebuild our lives, to continue this journey of discovery and learning that Jacob deserves, and to create a sustainable future where we can thrive. Every donation, no matter the size, will bring us closer to realizing our dreams and proving that love and determination can conquer any obstacle. Your contribution will change our lives and empower Jacob’s world with education and boundless possibilities.
Thank you for considering our story and for your generosity. If you want to stay unanimous, I understand. If you would like any additional information, please feel free to reach out. It’s my desire to one day be able to give back: not only to you, but to others.
With gratitude and sincerity,
Theresa
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