- hello, as the holiday approached i learned some unsettling news my wife wants a divorce and expects me to just walk away. And to avoid filling my self with a lifetime of resentments I am choosing to do so. I was recently approached by my wife with concerns of our marriage not going how she planned. We’ve grown to be completely different people with different goals in life which I totally understand but her values now seem to be about politics and not wanting to be apart of society and it has gotten a little extreme but I’ve always been supportive I mean she’s my wife and id back her with anything. She has given me till April to move out and I can take the furniture in my sons room. But I will need to buy a car. And with christmascjust passing and working my butt off to give them * wife, son, and step daughter* a lovely christmas now ive got to start completely over and don’t know how or what I’m gonna do. I recently left my career as a chef because my wife had issues with me working with younger women due to her own insecurities I left my industry of 14 years to pursue a new career in marine restoration. I put my self through school and am finally starting to make good money. But now my job is on the line due to my lack of a vehicle which I had one but decided to sell it so my wife could move to be near her family which was 2,000 miles away from where we are from. I’ve grown to love it here and don’t want to leave as this new career is going wonderfully. But as stated before if I can’t get a work truck soon my career will be at the door and I will be in a worse position than I am now. I hate asking for things and am a believer in hard work but I’m at a complete loss and don’t know what I’m going to do. Please help this is me being vulnerable and it pains me to ask. God bless cash app $holyoakian