Hello,
I have been married for 16 years. Me and my wife have both been active duty Military the whole time. We recently decided to get a divorce and have a decree waiting to be signed. I have not signed yet due to her trying to take everything in our current home along with the equity. I made her change the decree to state we we would split the profits 50/50. We both still live in the house and during this time there has been nothing but turmoil in this household. There were certain bills that she was in charge of paying that she stopped paying because those bills were in my name. Those bills have racked up over time and I have to try to get things caught up. Also during this time, since we no longer split everything, I racked up almost 50k in Credit Card debt. Most of my paycheck goes towards the bills that she stopped paying and my half of the mortgage plus car notes and insurance. Now, I had to resort to using credit cards to provide for our two children, still buying groceries for the house for her and the kids. With all of this going on, we are still married military to Military, the military has decided to move us jointly to California! Everyone knows the cost of living in Cali is super expensive. There is no way we can fight this move at this point. With my credit score going from a high 720 to 650 with the number of credit cards and being unable to pay them off in time, I would like to get this taken care of before the move to California. I would like to get this taken care of due to the cost of living there and not want to be living in a low-income area with my kids. I would like to get my credit score back up and have all this behind me so I can move forward in my life and still be happy. If anyone would like to help, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you in advance.
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