Hello, you lovelies.
Thank you for taking a second to read my post.
I am a 25-year-old female, who needs a hand. I was in an abusive relationship for the past 4 years after escaping my childhood home. I grew up in a very abusive situation with my brother and single father who “looked after us” pocketed the money to work on the house, as we ate frozen dinners and had oversized clothing and shoes.
— that isn’t why I am writing this.
I recently, around Christmas, was finally able to get out of the 4 year relationship, and since, have been having a hard time finishing up school and maintaining my rent bills.
My rent bill for March has bounced (which scares the crap out of me, embarrasses me, and makes me feel like I can’t succeed) and it’s alarming because (as stupid as it is) the man whom I lived with would take care of all the bills and always made me question myself and would tell me that it’s “taken care of” and that I wouldn’t need to stress over the situation. (Looking back, this was foolish, I realize)
This being said, it was my first-month paying not only power, water, and internet alone, but also fully paying rent.
what happened is I had the cheque for the months rent in, but it bounced due to the other bills coming out prior. I am still scrounging money to pay for this month’s rent and finding it super difficult.
My parents – father, doesn’t help me out financially, and when he does, he does it with an agenda to get something back from it in return, (example, puts a % on the amount I borrow, so I owe him back interest on the money borrowed..)
mother lives in the USA and is dealing with her husbands’ extensive medical bills and it’s getting to be too much for her to help me out, as she mentioned her bill right now, without a CT scan of his abdomen is over $10,000.
I am currently looking for help to pay my rent for March, hoping to have everything in line for April and May, but would appreciate a hand.
If you are able to help, I would be beyond grateful. I believe in angels and I believe in miracles.
Thank you so much for helping me, and for reading this.