Needing financial help, anything will help but $400,000 will get us a clean slate and back on track. All the money will go towards debit/bills
Over the years bills and other financial responsibilities have slowly piled up and now it seems we cant get a break. My husband is a very hard worker, some may say a workaholic. He always grinds to make ends meet and refuse to ask for help. He will alway help others before himself which at times puts us in a bind. I too work which helps keeps us afloat but it gets exhausting and making it hard to be there for our 4 kids.
This all started when my husbands dad got sick. He needed medical care (dialysis) and where his dad lives, if you dont have the money they will not help you. So he started paying for his treatments. He also would pay for his travel expenses. They lived 3 hours from the nearest city where his treatment is. After a year of that, his father died. They couldn’t afford anything, so we paid for the funeral and burial. At this time, we financially were ok. Then, my husband being the caring person that he is, decided to pay for his little sister’s education (high school is not free there), She was only 14 years old. My husband felt like it was his responsibility to get her through school since his dad was unable to. This is when things started to get tight financially but he continued to help his sister. After she graduated from high school, he offered to pay for her college and school supplies. During this time other things came up over the years and my husband ended up help others too. A church burnt down, so he help financially rebuild it. Other family members past, he help with some financial burdens. His mom lost some income when his dad past, so he would help support her a bit. Family or friends needing to barrow money so they dont lose their house, etc. The list goes on. Then recently his uncle decided to retire and leave the country but still had a mortgage to manage. My husband willing to help out, took this as an opportunity to own a rental property and hoping this could help us with a little income. Unfortunately this set us over financially, the mortgage was too high to be covered by a renter. It helped his uncle but hurt us. We couldn’t keep up with the payments on top of our own mortgage, we ended up selling it. We couldn’t sell it for the price we were indebted due to the value of the property/location. We dont want to lose our current house since our mortgage is way cheaper than rent. My husband works 14 hrs a day and through the weekend to help pay this off. He rather work himself to death than to ask for help and it hurts me dearly seeing him work so hard. He deserves some relief. Our kids miss spending time with us, and we miss them too.
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