- I have been with the same man for 31 years, married 21. I have always been a supportive wife. It hasn’t been all that good for us the past 10 years. Recently, I finally had to admit him to a treatment center for alcoholism. He was there for 45 days. He came out sober and excited about life again. However, that life didn’t include me. He met another girl there, 16 years his junior that is also an addict. He moved out and moved her in at his new condo after knowing her for 3 months. Left me here with our mortgage and other debts. We are in the process of divorce, and he was ordered to pay me monthly. He did not want to do that. So, he lost his job purposely out of spite and is not helping me with any of our debt. I have done all I can now for 7 months alone, with lawyer fees and my other debt I have spent all I have. I only work 32 hours a week due to having Systemic Lupus. It’s a very debilitating disease that I struggle with daily. Extreme fatigue, muscle and joint pain throughout my body, and it attacks my organs. I have acute kidney failure, had pancreatitis multiple times and just recently found out I have pulmonary fibrosis. I also have severe raynauds syndrome that caused me to have multiple finger amputations. I do all I can to get by and survive, but I’m afraid to lose it all because he refuses to help me. I have two bloodhounds that I adopted a year ago. I spend a lot of money on them to give them the best life and food I can. They mean the world to me and they are large dogs that eat a lot lol. They have helped me get through all of this and I just want to keep my home with my dogs. I’m stuck right now because I can’t sell anything, I can’t refinance or make any changes until this divorce is final. I only have 4 years left on this mortgage.
- Anything you can do is greatly appreciated. Thank you for your help.
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