Hello Generous Donors,
I really don’t know how to ask for help, since I am usually the one helping people out which I love doing. I am just caught right now between a rock and a hard place and don’t know what to do.
This is a little bit of my story below:
I got a call a few weeks ago from my husband, saying he doesn’t want to be part of the mortgage renewal, which is coming up February 2, 2024, (a few days from today ), and that he also wants a divorce. He said this has been his plan all along to use me and my resources to achieve his dream of living in North America, and then dump me.
This is a man I have supported from the get- go since we met and now that he has finished graduate school, and is now working in his profession, he has decided not to come back home, which was the plan we had discussed and agreed on and then it will be my turn to get the certification for my profession.
I am not working right now because I have been dealing with a lot of health issues, studying for my professional exams, and taking care of my elderly parents, who have been in and out of the hospital this past year. And speaking of health issues on one of my hospital visits after the doctor said it could be breast cancer, she asked if we had any questions, my husband’s question was if the doctor was aware of any grant program that would sponsor his graduate school, the doctor was in shock. In retrospect the few doctors visit he decided to come with, he always asked the various doctors I was seeing the same question about the sponsorship, and each time the doctors were speechless.
I have never felt safe and secure in this relationship, due to the various kinds of abuse I have suffered since we got married. He said I should have seen this coming, and if I didn’t then I was foolish. I didn’t know making plans with your spouse, supporting and believing in them , means you are labelled as been foolish.
I have called the bank and the options they gave is not feasible before the deadline of February 2, 2024 . A friend told me about this platform and persuaded me to give it a try so I don’t end up homeless.
My goal is to raise $400000 to pay off the mortgage, loans, bills, condo fees, exam fees, and to help with my parents, who were a great help to us financially when we were struggling in our early years of marriage.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story, and for your generosity in helping me out of this terrible situation I have been thrust into without any lifeline. May God bless you all.
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