I have my hysterectomy scheduled for 10/8/2025. I am getting married 9/13/2025 and my fiance and I have poured our heart and soul into making our dream wedding a reality. We were not expecting my surgery date to be so quickly after the wedding and money is tight at this time.
Since my first menstrual cycle, I had been begging my mom to get my uterus taken out. I hated it every month; I would be in bed sobbing with every heating pad we owned, trying every remedy and medication that was said to help, with little to no relief every time.
I also knew that I was not ever going to want children of my own. Helping raise my younger brother with my single mom -dad passed when I was 3 years old- certainly gave me enough experience with parenting that I knew since I was about 15 that I would never want children of my own. I purposely found a life partner that also has made the decision a long time ago that he also never wanted to have children of his own.
After trying every possible birth control, hormone supports, etc., there were no more options for me to try to handle my symptoms. Earlier this year I went to my doctor and discussed my options and we decided that it is best to get a hysterectomy.
Please consider supporting me on this journey, as even with my doctors and surgeons approval, insurance is refusing to help, deeming it “elective surgery.” I am looking to have $5000-$10,000 by the time of the surgery for all of my costs and aftercare. Anything will help, thank you all for your time and your help! Below you will find different options to be able to send funds. Thank you!
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