My name is Wisdom Walamu, and today I’m writing with a heart full of love, fear, and hope. I never thought I’d find myself in this position asking the kindness of strangers to help save the most important person in my life. But here I am, not as a man too proud to beg, but as a husband and a soon-to-be father who is terrified of losing the woman who means everything to him.
My wife, Joy, is expecting our baby boy. What should be the happiest time of our lives has become a time filled with fear and desperation. She needs an urgent Cesarean section (C-section) surgery, and we simply cannot afford it.
We’ve done everything we can. We’ve stretched every dollar, knocked on every door, and tried every possible option. But the truth is we are falling short. And the clock is ticking.
A Love Story Worth Fighting For
Let me tell you a little about her about the woman who changed my life. We met in the most ordinary way, but what blossomed was anything but ordinary. She is kind beyond words, strong beyond belief, and has carried this pregnancy with so much grace despite the challenges. Even when she was in pain, she smiled. Even when she was scared, she reassured me.
From the moment we found out we were going to be parents, she lit up in a way I’d never seen before. She talked to our baby every night. She would place my hand on her belly and say, “Feel him? He’s dancing for us.” Her love for our son is already boundless. I see it in the way she prepares his tiny clothes, in the way she whispers lullabies before he’s even born.
But the last few weeks have been hard. Her doctor told us that due to complications, a natural birth is too risky. A C-section is the only safe option for both her and the baby. Without it, her life and our son’s are in danger.
The Reality We’re Facing
We live in a place where healthcare isn’t always accessible to those who need it most. We don’t have insurance that covers this kind of emergency, and the cost of the surgery is far beyond what we can manage. We’re not asking for luxury or comfort we’re asking for a chance. A chance to bring our baby into the world safely. A chance to keep the woman I love alive.
Every day that passes without the surgery adds to the risk. Her condition is growing more complicated. The doctor has urged us to schedule the C-section as soon as possible. But all we can do now is wait and hope and pray that help comes in time.
Why I’m Reaching Out
I never imagined I’d be starting a fundraiser for something so critical, so intimate. But I’ve learned that pride doesn’t matter when the person you love is in danger. All that matters is getting her the help she needs.
We’re not looking for a miracle we’re just looking for kindness. Your donation, no matter how small, brings us closer to the day I can hold both of them my wife and my son safe in my arms. It brings us closer to life instead of loss.
I think about what could happen if we don’t raise enough in time. I try not to, but it haunts me. I imagine a future without her laugh, her warmth, her love. And I can’t bear it. She’s not just my wife she’s my best friend, my strength, my world.
She has dreams too. She wants to be the kind of mom who packs school lunches, who cheers the loudest at football games, who stays up late helping with homework. She wants to watch our son grow, to see who he becomes. She deserves that. They deserve that.
How You Can Help
If you’ve ever loved someone so much it scared you if you’ve ever looked into someone’s eyes and seen your whole future then you know what I’m feeling right now. You know what it means to want to fight the whole world just to keep them safe.
I’m not a writer, I’m not a public speaker—I’m just a man in love, trying to protect his family. And right now, we need help. We need people to care. We need people like you.
Your donation will go directly to covering the cost of her C-section surgery. Every single cent will be used to bring our son into this world safely and to make sure my wife survives this birth. Every share, every message, every act of support means more than I can put into words.
I know times are hard for many, and asking for help isn’t easy. But if you’ve read this far, thank you. Thank you for taking the time to hear our story. Thank you for seeing us, even if we’re strangers. And thank you, from the depths of my heart, if you’re able to help.
One Last Wish
All I want is to hear my baby cry for the first time and to see her smile when she holds him. All I want is to tell her, “You did it. You’re safe. He’s safe. We’re a family.”
Please help me make that happen.
Payment Options:
Bitcoin Address: 1JQngSxR9mPCtWhaEnwettHnMkbMfRX2DX
US BANK ACCOUNT DETAILS
Account Holder: Wisdom Eruchi Walamu
Account Number: 215533584454
Wire Routing: 101019644
ACH Routing: 101019644
Account Type: Checking
Bank Name: Lead Bank
Bank Address: 1801 Main St., Kansas City, MO 64108
EU BANK ACCOUNT DETAILS
Account Name: Wisdom Eruchi Walamu
Account Number: 68205466
Sort Code: 041307
Swift Code: CLJUGB21XXX
IBAN: GB21CLJU04130768205466
Bank Name: Clear Junction Limited
Bank Address: 4th Floor Imperial House, 15 Kingsway, London, United Kingdom, WC2B 6UN
PLEASE NOTE:
•This account only support payments via SEPA & SEPA
•Account can only receive funds in the European Euro (EUR)
UK BANK ACCOUNT DETAILS
Account Name: Wisdom Eruchi Walamu
Account Number: 68205466
Sort Code: 041307
Swift Code: CLJUGB21XXX
IBAN: GB21CLJU04130768205466
Bank Name: Clear Junction Limited
Bank Address: 4th Floor Imperial House, 15 Kingsway, London, United Kingdom, WC2B 6UN
PLEASE NOTE:
* This account only support payments via Faster payments (FPS), Bacs and CHAPS
* Account can only receive funds in the Great Britain
Pounds (GBP)
With all my heart,
Wisdom Walamu.