My grandfather Alexander Wilson was 94 a WWII Vet. My dad didn’t want to deal with him. So, something had happened that lead my dad to leave my grandfather at a rehabilitation center with nothing but a hospital gown on. No clothes no under garments, just a gown. For about a year I kept hearing my dad complain about having to take off from work to help his father, when he never wanted me. Long story short I received a call from the center in Baltimore Md, that my grandfather would like to see me and my oldest child Izayah. I reside in North Carolina, and I would drive up to see him on a weekly basics. So after about a year I decided to go ahead and be his POA an relocate my grandfather to NC with me, where he resided until he passes 2022 of Sept. In between the time he resided with me I open up claims thru the VA department for my grandfather’s pension an compensation while reconstructing my home to fit his needs ” stair ramp so he wouldn’t have to go up 2 flights of stairs etc. So, he was awarded on Sep 20th, 2022, for his compensation an on Sep 24th my grandfather passes on. So, the treasury went into his USAA account On March 2023 and an the VA recovered the funds that he was entitled to. Now I have to take out 10k for my grandfather’s funeral. Remind you all, I’m not working due to difficulties carrying my child. I’m about 5 months with child at the time. My father was, fiduciary over his funds due to my credit wasn’t together at that time, still isn’t tbh. So now that we put my grandfather to rest my father started to get sick on me. But he’s been sick the whole time and no one’s letting me know that due to my difficult pregnancy. So, 3 months later the VA decides to contact me about my father an wanted to know wants was going on with my grandfathers’ awarded funds, I had to let them know I have no idea what’s going on with those funds, as my father is in the hospital with stage 4 cancer. So, Its January 20th, 2023, 1 day before my baby shower I decided to go to my dad’s house and check on him because no matter what he has ever done “This is my dad”. I love him. We Headed out to Grab 2 salads from a restaurant he wanted to go to. After eating his meal, he decided to sit in the living room to watch tv, and that’s when the unthinkable happened my dad started to have a seizure I try to help him I couldn’t he died in my arms by the time the emergency unit arrive, he was gone the time was 11:28pm I’m about 2/3 weeks away from my delivery date but going thru the stress of losing both my grandfather and now my dad the paramedic’s wanted me to go with them because I was having contractions. I denied an just wanted to be left alone to cry. So here it is the day later after experience the loss of my father, my baby shower, yes, the next day later Jan21st 2023, was supposed to be a wonderful moment and I couldn’t make it. So, my son Kingston was born on Jan31st 2023, he arrives 2 weeks sooner due to so many stressful events that has taken place. So now Its time to burry my dad, here’s another 12k for his funeral now I’m about to start running off of my credit cards cause my savings are depleted at this time, which was set aside for my time off to be with my newborn for that year. But no worries I just put in the claims for my grandfather’s funds the VA had taken an this was in March 23rd of this year all the way until Aug they decided to let me know that the form they told me to fill out was the incorrect form an I need to submit another form, and I did in So they sent me a letter stating they are still processing my claim and that they are just waiting on a signature from the supervisor to send out the award letter. So, I’m actually relived cause my mortgage haven’t been paid since March. My car insurance has laps. So, now my tags are revoke my oldest son tuition hasn’t been paid, now he can’t even schedule his next semester classes, and this is his last year. At this point I’ve pawned all my jewelry to keep the lights on pampers an wipes food in the home. Asking for government assistance didn’t help. Now its Nov. and the VA are stating that they never recoup the funds from my grandfather’s account, and I need to go to the courts an open an estate in his name to claim the funds now it is going on Dec. no Christmas for us and to top it off a pre foreclosure letter cause I’m now 8 months in the rear. At 14k with no help I have no choice to get on the internet an beg for assistance at the last min Please from the kindness of you all’s heart please donate anything to help me keep my home and my family safe this cold holiday season an so forth attach is my cashapp information $KymmieDoll. Thank you so much