My husband told me he wanted a divorce after 22 years. The reason I asked “I interrupted him”! I had no idea what I was up against or who I was married to. (I still don’t). I didn’t realize until after that I was a victim of every for of abuse. I’m also 100% suffering from RSD and PTSD.(abandonment) Apparently that doesn’t mean much to Ouachita Parish, Monroe Louisiana or to anyone in Louisiana. All I can say is I was a good wife and great mother. I only regret that I was able to see that my husband was living a double life. I had no idea until I started researching him looking for answers to why and who has caused this. Come to find out not only was he in the oil/gas trade he was also in real estate/land development. I can only say wow. I can’t tell you how many aliases he has or addresses. It’s insane. I have worked tirelessly trying to get to the bottom of it. I have shared this with my attorneys that have thrown me under the bus. I can’t understand why and how they are able to do what they have done and just withdraw with the judges signature. I have been made to sign a property settlement without anything. He has all the retirement, checking accounts and property. I have nothing. I begged my attorney to please go to trial. She said I would lose and would end up writing him a big check. She said she would withdraw if I didn’t sign it. She also said if I found properties or anything that was not listed then that would make the settlement null and void. Well I did and she withdrew. The attorney before her withdrew three days before a hearing that I wasn’t notified of and she didn’t turn in my master list. I just found out she is a life long friend and graduated high school with my ex. I have a court date next month for my ex to sale my home. This is a man that was living with his ex girlfriend in South Carolina and listed the address on our taxes. (While we were married)! He has townhouses and apartments that he conveniently said he sold. While we were married. This man ruined my credit and laughed about it. I gave every penny for over 22 years to our account just to be on food stamps and Medicaid now. It’s horrible. I need help I don’t have family and I’m so tired of people being so ugly just because people are struggling. I can’t understand how I can start a marriage out with $11,000 and now 20 years later have nothing. He has paid off these people. I don’t understand how anyone can finalize a property settlement without turning in financials!!! I need help saving my home. He never had a key. I’ve lived here 6 years and I’m trying to get my home in my name before the court date. I also need a private investigator to prove what I am saying is true and bonafide. I hope this helps and y’all can understand.
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