Hello I’m in desperate need of assistance. I was a caregiver for my ex boyfriend for the past 3 years. I finally was able to get paid as his caregiver in March of 2023 and he was approved by SSI in April of 2023. We were evicted from our last apartment due to no rental assistance available due to funding and exercised ERAP for the 18 months prior during the last 3 years if me caring for him 24/7 from a serious motorcycle accident in Oct of 2020. He was in a coma for 3 months and had several disabilities from physical and health that demanded 24/7 assistance that didn’t allow me to go back to work by being up with him throughout the night for trach care, bathroom, dressing, meal prep, and much more. My parents paid for hotels after the eviction and put them in financial stress which also impacted their health. They also helped me move into our new apartment. My ex boyfriend had become very sick from lung infection and pneumonia and ended up having sepsis. Along with his liver failure and this infection and bouncing around being unstable after the eviction he refused to go to the hospital to get the IV antibiotics to try and make money on the side which was difficult for him. I was diagnosed in April of 2023, of congested heart failure with my heart pumping at only 20%; after having a heartattack before our eviction. I was hospitalized for a week. I also have a condition of juevenile polypisis syndrome and chronic pancreatitis. My GI felt that my heart issue was related to my condition; which scheduled me in for an endoscopy and colonoscopy. The results showed severe inflammation of areas in esophagus, stomach and areas in the intestines displaying closures causing difficulties in digestions and pain. I also had around 50 polyps removed from esophagus, stomach and intestines that ranged from 8mm and 2 inches in size. It’s been difficult for me to pack, move, or anything physical without being winded, short of breath and dizzy. I’m trying exercise by walking here in there until I feel lightheaded then having to rest and my head full of sweat. August 7th of 2023, my ex boyfriend had hallucinated so badly that he had barricaded the door by hammering a a drill bit of some sort 4 inches long into the latch of my apartment door after he had locked it and placed chairs, portable AC, and misc items. He was carrying around a hammer and the night before at 3 am woke me up with a butcher knife he was swinging around and almost struck me yelling at something that wasn’t there. I told him to drop the knife and I threw it across the room and hardly slept as he kept checking on me every hour. I was scared.. I just had my procedure the Friday before of the 50 polyps being removed from me and I was still recovering with pain. He had me call me call 911 to call the police for help because he thought there were 100s of people trying to break in to kill us. He refused to let me out and snapped at me viciously when I tried to reason with him so I had to play along for my safety since he was mentally checked out. He has been incarcerated since august and I lost my job as caregiver due to the circumstances. So unable to pay rent I’m behind august and sept and now October. I was supposed to use his ssi check to pay me back since him and is friend took 450 dollars from my rent. I didn’t receive his ssi check because we forgot to update the change of address since I haven’t been myself from the stress and my health conditions. I was told by the DA-criminal compensation that I won’t be able to receive my loss of wages until they receive the invoice from the door replacement from hammered holes in the door and the police dept busting the door down. And an email in response to their question from my director where I was employed as his caregiver. I just found this out last Friday. They also informed me after they receive everything they have to present it to the board and a check will be mailed 10 days after. I have to be moved out before the 10th of October or have around $6,150 in rent up to date if I stay. I really want to relocate and move out immediately but have no money. I don’t want to pursue this relationship with my ex no longer because of verbal abuse these past few months prior to incident and need to have a safe healthy environment for my daughter and myself. I need to focus on my health so I can live a longer life for my daughter needs me without this stress and craziness. I don’t want him to find us. I need to rebuild my life and just focus on my daughter and myself. I also owe my mechanic money for fixing a donated car that was given to me by my daughters school. I’ve never been in this situation before … I’m desperate need of help and I’m running out of options and so far it’s looking like I’m about to be homeless and lose everything I’ve worked so hard for. I can’t even use my retirement because because I used it to keep a roof over our heads from 2020 to 2021. I’m having trouble finding funding to help me with rent assistance avd I still haven’t received my food stamps until Oct 10th. I’m at the lowest point of my life and I’m baffled. I’m just grateful that my daughter wasn’t here when this occurred. If you could help me if greatly appreciate it… thank you God Bless my PayPal account is; cjrodarte@hotmail.com