My girlfriend and I are moving closer to our family members because they’re all we really have, but as much as they would want to support us, they’re not in a position. I found a new job already, and I start July 9th. Overnight shift at a grocery store that pays not much, but whatever, it’s something. Neurodivergent gf is still looking, but keeps watching suicide prevention videos because the thought of masking constantly at work is so overwhelming (don’t worry, she does have a therapist to reach out to). I know this will get better for her if some of the other stressors are alleviated.
Needless to say, we’re trying to do things in service to protecting our safety and mental health, but the financial burdens are hampering us from feeling like we’re going to make it. We found a good place, and we will be fine after the initial month and we’re working again, but with the security deposit, first month of rent, and associated fees come to $2586.00. For a 600 sq ft apartment. Anyone looking at apartment listings knows this pain. We have to pay for the carpet cleaning etc at our current place, plus whatever moving costs accumulate. We wish that this was at a better time, but life happens. My gf just had a major surgery last month and the medical debt is mounting. I’m still trying to emerge from debt after a nasty divorce. We don’t really have savings. I’m not good at asking for help, especially from strangers, but if there is any chance that people in your network have the level of solidarity and ability to give even a little, we cannot express how grateful we would be. We know that times are hard for everyone, and we can’t wait to be in a position to do the same for others. Thank you.
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