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Last Updated: December 1, 2023

My ex got loans on my name and I can’t cope with the debt

Hey,

I have got myself in the situation I thought would never happen to me. I was doing well in my life. I had a nice place to live and a job that was good. I was happy. Then I met a man who fooled me for months. I was in love with him and that hasn’t happen before like that. I’m over 40 and I have only had 4 partners in my life. They all have ended up in tears. One was insanely jealous. But this last… I thought he was it. My guy. But I found out that he has taken loans on my name over ten thousands of euros. And also he has gone and I can’t reach him in anyways. He doesn’t live where he lived and phone number is disconnect. I can’t find him anywhere. I had to borrow a lot of money from someone that I trusted. Over 7500 euros. She agreed to borrow that money but as I was arranging things so that I could pay most of that my ex had got… she suddenly told me that she can’t give me the money after all. I feel desperate, I’m afraid I’m gonna lose my home and my darling cat. I don’t know what to do anymore. I have always been there for others and now that I need help, I can’t get it myself. I get that the financial situation is a lot different for many after these few years but it feels unfair. I am not good at asking help for myself. If I would do this for someone else, it would be so very easy. But when it’s me… I feel guilty. I grew up with my mom and my sisters. Money was always a problem. She didn’t have enough and bills were all she thought about after our father had left her. And even when dad was living with us, money was all they argued about. And asking from grandparents or relatives was out of the question. There were times when we didn’t have food to eat for days. I grew out of that and manage to get myself pretty solid life. But then all changed in a heart beat. I am working but suddenly there are less hours and for that also less payment. I can’t cope with my debt. I try to pay something to everywhere and end up having so little for me and my cat. I have to pay the rent and food for both of us. So, if there’s someone such a kind heart and would want to help me get out of this situation, I would be so thankful. I am glad that I was introduced this page and I want to pass it on in the future. To be the one that helps others in a bad situations too. But now, I need help for me and my cat. I’m heartbroken. I thought I was lucky to meet this guy and maybe I should have known before what was happening but I didn’t. I can’t believe that I let myself to be fooled like that? I can’t believe that I have to borrow money to get into more and more debt. All the energy I have left is for my work. I am so thankful that I have it but it’s not enough. So, please help me before I lose it all.

www.paypal.me/MariaAndRomeo

With sincere thanks

Maria

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