I’m usually the one that people call for help, and here I am Praying that someone will do the same for me!!!
Life is not always as easy for some as it is for others, some can do all the work and take time to do it right and still get stuck wondering how to make it…
That is my story as of the past year, I found courage to leave a bad situation and knew it was going to be a challenge but I accepted that and knew regardless I had to move on and escape the insanity that I was living and Ihad been doing it, making all the bills all by myself in a home where in middle class definitely needs two incomes. Then, a friend needed help so of course because thats what friends do if they can I did, and they left me hanging knowing I will lose my house and have already had pge/electricity shut off with two children in the home…
Thankfully i had a generator that connects to the house ESPECIALLY WITH THE HEAT!
I honestly don’t kn0w what to do or where to turn and then I just happened to come across this site.
I am going thru a divorce a mentally exhausting deal when your ex would rather you be homeless with the kids than let you walk away. But add to the fact that I worked for him and never received a paycheck and he was in control of our money so I left with NOTHING and NO SAVINGS
Then I have no lawyer for the divorce and he does also no one to help due to the fact I’m in the mountains states away from anyone I call family and he wants to try to take everything, Everything I came into the marriage with well what’s left of it and all that I HAVE PAID for and then some and because I don’t have a lawyer, and he may just get it in the end if I can’t get some help somewhere and FAST!
I have the home we lived in only because he didn’t want to pay the bills here so I kept it and have made it over a year paying the bills working online cleaning homes doing errands and whatever to get it and would have been ok had I not loaned out money to help another in need and it felt good to do so until he didn’t hold up his side of the deal and even knowing I could lose everything!
I don’t have my mortgage paid for this month 2,400 and they pulled out the money from last months mortgage of 2,400 due to the help I so humbly gave to someone I had trusted!
I’m not on a normal loan, otherwise I would have some options I’m on an owner carry meaning I took over their note and my second mortgage is the amount that goes directly to the seller.
I’ve had loan offers but because this divorce is still closing no financer will touch it and neither would I sign with the ex or go in on the airbnb with him, he’s done enough for me to know 100% that he would just take all he could and leave me with nothing if given the chance unless I gave in and went back with him. Why someone would think a woman would go back to them if they basically strong arm them idk or why they would want her back because clearly she only did so to save herself and a matter of time she would get away again…
I do have a silver lining if only I can make it and I am very familiar with airbnb, Verbo home rentals, their process how to manage it, like I said above I also have investors ready to go upon the divorce to help out if needed or I can get a grant being a woman business owner but its all contingent on me getting the divorce final and paying the bills this month, the home is a beautiful 5bd 3ba right on the lake with pool and Jacuzzi within walking distance to the lake or the mountains when it snows for skiing its a year round win win. There are a few other Airbnbs with places similar to mine but smaller in the area and they make a killing!
My home is estimated to make 180,000 a year, base income so with the pool Jacuzzi and extras it ups the price and I can always charge over or under their recommendations its all up to me.
So I have a plan and am so close to getting it or LOSING it all because of money and only 10,000 and i would be back on track and close out the divorce in a few weeks
So here I am begging someone to please help me from losing my home and my only hope for the future….
Please Help me and my kids make it out of this horrifying experience and put faith back into our hearts that there are good people still in this world!