To those who have taken the time to read this, your willingness to help means more than I can express. I’m reaching out in a moment of deep need, hoping to find assistance and support to lift my family out of a severe financial crisis that is now beginning to seem like there is no way out of the storm. This overwhelming situation feels as if there is no end in sight, but I believe this opportunity of finding and following by the Grace of God, the place and ability to connect with kind and generous people. Your generosity would not only help me in getting my family out of the devastating situation we are currently all fighting to beat during this difficult time, but also be honored and cherished deep in my heart, and with the same kindness you have shown me, I will pay back the same support and ability to have a second chance to others and their families how you did so out of the pure compassion and generosity of your caring and selfless heart!
For the past 3.5- 4 years, my family and I have faced relentless hardship because of attempted abuse and false recollection of made-up events that always seemed to escalate and be provoked even with legal protections present. This prayer of assistance for myself and my family as a father, husband, and devoted man of faith, I am desperate for a lifeline of all things that you feel could be given to help try to end this. I vow to express every ounce of my time and energy in this life, to be able to give back to others the same support that was presented and granted to me, just as you have helped us. I am committed to using the assistance to rebuild and to give back, stability to our life, and to get back to the point that where we can begin to help others through the many blessings God will grant us in this life.
My life has always been dedicated to serving others, whether it be through military service, as a firefighter/paramedic, or guiding young people in their faith journey. The passion and commitment for helping others has been a source of constant and unwavering devotion, so that I never passed up an opportunity to give back to those most willing to help others but didn’t ask for assistance themselves. After serving in the military, which provided me with educational and financial opportunities, I transitioned to a role as a firefighter/paramedic. This career truly resonated with me and solidified my passion for aiding those in distress. It was something I always felt had been my calling get into the heavy most intense areas when you can who need a lifeline, assistance, or a second chance they can’t find anywhere else.
My family and I need your help. I am deeply grateful for any support you can provide and aspire to utilize the donations and resources that you have given to us. To not only be able to reset and rebuild or life but could help in getting back to normal and stabilize to the point that your choice and kindness of providing help to us, will be what allows us to be a source of help for others forever more.
Despite my efforts to be a person that could assist others however possible. As well as someone that cares for each person I have the pleasure to meet and talk with. My ability to support and protect my own family is now suffering greatly in what feels like an infinite time loop of peril with no signs of rescue… I am truly in a situation that all I can do is pray that God sends a miracle, a savoir, a person who could help us back to a normal life, and no longer live in the constant fear of harm threatened to myself and loved ones, blackmailing of extended family members and their places of employment, while attempted to use as a tool to obtain more money from my family and I.
Having established myself in a new career, I took the opportunity to start a side business to support my growing family. Through this venture, I discovered a deep satisfaction in helping others navigate their own challenges. It became a daily purpose for me to find at least one way to assist someone in need.
I need to exercise extreme caution in the limiting information that may cause parts of this section to be roughly descriptive and with emphasis on total protection of my personal identifying information. I disclose that information to protect and limit all additional harm and damages involved with the continuous fear and awareness for retaliation that has been directed back at my family because of catching the individuals that started all of this. Our situation involves navigating a complex and infuriating hostile environment where any information revealed or discovered might invite further aggression or disruption from those involved.
Initially, there were small, deceptive attempts to exploit my family’s generosity, which quickly escalated once it began to appear to them that they were comfortable with slowly beginning to stretch the boundaries. These began with minor fabrications but soon involved more serious threats of harm to not only myself but my family. This tactic would then be attempted to be made no longer a focus of their time. The aggressors began to provide false and entirely incorrect information regarding the deaths of their own family members to continue to try and build a stance that their attempts to solicit help for fictitious funeral costs were made up by my family as an attempt to limit their ability to take over a certain percentage of my business and assets, to which they had no legal or factually backed up paperwork or filings.
This would continue for months and months into a 2-year battle to just want to protect my family and relocate because of this insanity. The next retaliations were initiated by acts of vandalism, including damage to my private property and vehicles. From a continuous attempt to isolate my family and I with slashed tires, fireworks. To now having accounts and information changed to their personal identifying information, with accusations of identity theft being reported as malicious attempts to have support and the ability to try to complete take any ounce of our life to fight the financial blackmail. The situation culminated in direct death threats, that due to the position of who and where I work were able to finally put intense legal and punitive actions these individuals “apparently” decided to slow down their instances of harassment. The destruction and disruption of credit accounts, bank accounts, mortgage, vehicles were confirmed and documented as legitimate evidence of all the destruction that has severely affected my ability to not only regain a footing to even be able to rebuild the damage done to our lives. While at the same time having to weigh the pros and cons of the extreme outcomes this sort of situation can bring to my career and its continued acceptance as part of a city and public servant role.
Frankly and as direct and blunt as I can be regarding the overall situation that transpired and escalated because of this family discovering, attempting, and ultimately forcefully taking information, documents, accounts, and destroying and/or theft and liquidations of assets. Has placed our family in a financial wormhole that I believed could have been solved with increasing my amount of time at all my 2 full time careers as well as a night time position to ensure my family had additional support to keep the bare essentials and supplies necessary to keep navigating this nightmare of pure disbelief and deflation of all that was worked for to get to the point I had gotten our family. A total of almost $89,000 in credit card debt, credit accounts, invoices, and charged and “inaccessible” statements not able to be released from what law enforcement individuals involved described as a shell type “business” that no further information can be found regarding. The $89,000 was able to be reduced by a minor amount down to $82,400, is something we are unsure we will ever be able to make a dent in. With how the threats and distress of the situation when the suspects were still abusing and blackmailing Myself my wife and our respective places of employment and even more for the delay in reporting anything as the threats for harm or worse to my family and friends, did strike a long and hard battle to get any reasonable declaration of attempts to work with companies to settle on anything. All damage to our home, which I am fearful we will not be able to have evidence or chain of evidence within a timely manner to grant the forgiveness on a credit lien because of this whole thing, damage and vandalism to our vehicles, it is almost a $135,000 nightmare. A nightmare that I am concerned will never be helped or eased to a point where there is a moment to stop, relax and enjoy the parts of life that I now can’t even fathom will be sacrificed, as I can’t see an end soon that we will be able to recover from this.
Despite this necessary restraint and limitations, I am wishing to keep present at this time to protect my family so that they stay protected, having no unnecessary involvement in potential areas of risk with these people or associated with anymore whatsoever. I want to express how very important it is for me to convey how deeply the choice to share such a life changing and life altering potential reset that your gracious generosity would be to my family and the financial support that could save our whole life and the future that is front of our 3.5-year-old son. It would affect us in ways that we could ever imagine to be an option when it comes to the ability to bounce back and not have to worry if we will lose everything due to the damage, greed, and horrific intent of disruption those involved caused my family. Anything and everything that you can find in your heart to gift to my family and allow us to persevere into this new season and new chapter of life.
The assistance you provide would be transformative, not only offering critical relief to my family but also enabling us to continue to raise focus and then extend additional aid to others in need. Your generosity would make a significant difference, allowing us to regain our life and family to a point began to restart away from all of this. Eventually extending the same kindness and support to others that we have received from you.
(As I mentioned above, I am very concerned of additional information or issues that could cause my wife and son, and other family members anymore stress, harm, or misfortune as we have already experienced enough with this situation so far. I have utilized my PayPal account but as a business profile to limit and eliminate any potential breach and risk of the individuals finding and attempting to resume their harassment and destructive acts. The PayPal link I will post below is the correct person, and it will lead to the business link/page with a patriotic flag type picture and the name “HotHands” as well as the link – Helpinghandblessings but I want to acknowledge and express my 100% truthful and information that it is a “artificial” business name to protect my family and I without risk of more accidents and incidents from it all.)
http://paypal.me/helpinghandblessings
I again thank you from every ounce of my heart, mind, soul, and blessings of life that I can even ask that you all continue to be blessed and a source of hope and salvation for the people and things they love, believe in, and cherish.
Very Respectfully,
- C –