My name is Jaime, I am a military vet with the Navy from VFA87 from Oceana (discharged Dec 31, 2003).
I am humbly asking for assistance with income because my Fiancée was having pains on his side & they had gotten so bad His boss sent him home. I took him to the ER 06/24/24 to find He had a kidney stone. Referral for Urologist. (No problem right) Well Urology saw him, the Kidney stone was stuck, and Surgery was scheduled for the following morning 07/03/24. The urologist called me once the surgery was complete to be informed the surgery was not successful and he had a 100% kidney blockage. The Urologist placed a stent from his kidney into his bladder which allowed his bladder to drain. He was placed on FMLA unpaid & leave of absence. We finally got the information to HR to get his FMLA put into play. The Urologist placed him on a leave of absence till Aug 5, 2024 with his follow-up surgery scheduled on July 29, 2024. Leading up to the follow-up surgery with his last day of work being June 20, 2024 (His work schedule is a Monday through Thursday work week) we were moving into 4 solid weeks of no pay and maintenance bills for the home (power, food, gas for the propane tank for hot water, vehicle insurance, phone bill, internet ) were and are behind, then we add in the now current over $5000 in medical bills from ER visits and the 2 surgeries ). The second surgery known as the follow-up surgery was on July 29, 2024 and was successful. The urologist got the scope to the stone, removed it, and sent those fragments off to the lab for test so we can learn how to prevent this in the future. A temporary stent was put in place, with instructions for removal of the stent on Thursday, Aug 1st, 2024. We were informed he should get better but will still be sore. Jon was now feeling more pain on each side, and in his back, but was able to use the bathroom and empty his bladder. For him was still a relief due to having to urinate in a bottle since 06/24/24. We were told to wait it out, the bladder can spasm and that could be why he is still feeling pain after the removal of the kidney stone. We waited, Thursday rolled around, and it was time to remove the temporary stent. He was unsuccessful at the first few attempts to remove the stent at home under the advisement of his Urologist. We requested assistance from the office making him an appointment. Friday, Aug 2nd at 4:30 am Eastern time in the morning I heard a really loud yell and him yelling my name, which I found him in the bathroom in our home shaking. He had finally been successful in pulling the temporary stent out as he was advised from his Urologist. The Urologist office said he should be feeling better in few days, if by Sunday 08/04/2024 he doesn’t then he needs to go to ER. He was having continuous pain, now both sides were hurting, feeling pain in the upper part of the thigh, and He is feeling completely lost. I attempted to get him to see Urgent care on Monday 08/05/24 but Urgent care refused to see him due to not having the equipment to provide CT scan due to his previous surgeries. The Urgent Care recommendations were to call his Urologist first thing in the morning or ER. Tuesday Morning came around and we reached out to the Urologist’s office, which there were no available appointments. We were instructed if he was having that many complications to return to the ER. So back to the ER on 08/06/24. CT scan completed – no more kidney stones however he was diagnosed with a complication that can happen to up to 25% of patients who have this procedure done called Ureter Colic. He has been put back on leave of absence with a new return date of 08/19/2024. I do work remotely and have a “hobby” where I make wood décor and tumblers for extra money, but it is not enough to begin to cover the expenses and loss of income which will be at 7 weeks before he is currently scheduled to return to work then having to wait 2 weeks for a paycheck because of pay period cycles. We are begging and asking for any assistance. The two months of loss income is gross at $6200.00. I signed up to accept Bitcoin in case it helps.
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