14 years ago, I met a woman from the west indies that was living in her friend’s basement, homeless and had 2 children by different men. Later, it was revealed that one of her children’s fathers owned the house where she was staying. I fell in love and she eventually moved in my house, and we got married and had 3 children together. Her mother came in from her country to attend our wedding and never left. I didn’t think I would regret this later because her mother helped around the house with raising her 5 grandkids. We attended church regularly and participated in a few ministries as I thought we grew spiritually. Plus, I wanted my kids to have a spiritual foundation even if they depart from it as an adult, they may return to living right. I paid for all 5 kids expensive tuition in a private school so they have a decent education. My wife didn’t work consistently but would work as a nanny for under the table personal money although she had access to my bank accounts. She then started moving her relatives from overseas and friends into our house because she said they were in need. I never received financial payment for rent, food or utilities from totaling 21 people over the course of our marriage. My wife and kids suddenly left the church to go to another church without any explanation while I was a walking deacon for the church. I felt so embarrassed and eventually resigned my deacon pursuance because my wife cried and begged me to leave that church. I financed missions to her country to provide food, clothes and personal hygiene items to the many poor islanders while at that church. We also got married at that church. So, I was confused by her wanting to leave. She was also very abusive to her 2 kids and our kids. One day in 2014, at night, her and her girlfriend decided to take our kids and other family members away permanently. She abandoned our marriage. She had the nerve to even take my recently purchased SUV of 1 month prior. 9 years of her lying to judges in child support and custody court. We finally got divorced and she lied about me being the abuser and even said we both purchased my home. To avoid explaining the abandonment she lied and said I was abusive. My kids are intimidated by her, and they don’t want to testify against her. I was taken advantage of terribly and the judge granted her 90% of my assets. I am close to retirement age and have nothing. I need as much as I get to help me because I am still a father and my 1 kid just got married last week and I couldn’t provide anything because her mother has everything, I have worked hard for I am praying for financial blessings.