I’M requesting help for the below reasons.
Firstly 27 years ago I had a major car accident which resulted in another car colliding in to the car I was a passenger in, this caused my pelvis to shatter along with all my ribs on one side and my lung to deflate and my liver to bleed out. Ever since this accident I have been limited to what I can actually do as the pain can sometimes be unbearable. The doctors have always said that a hip replacement later in life will happen. So my problem has always been since that accident as I am always held back in-life and can not ever seem to reach my potential, when i have set goals in-life such as a fireman, traffic officer, prison officer I have always failed to complete the full training due to the injuries sustained 27years ago.
I was always a general build/ painter and decorator by trade from school but since that accident bending down for long periods can be very painful.
I’m now at a loss in my life as everything I seem to do just fails which is so frustrating for me and my family. I currently work as a part time security officer as it seems thats all I can do as a job as they require little or nothing from employees to get in to that job. Its not that I am not willing to try different things in life as I have been doing just that but just fail at everything that I have tried.
On top of all these problems I moved home to what I would see as a dream home one year ago and since then the house has gone through two major floods due to storm damage which keeps setting me back by months to get repairs done.
What ever I do or where ever I go life just seems to turn in to a disaster, ever since that car accident. Life feels like I am supposed to fail, like some sort of punishment which sounds crazy but when your experiencing the hardships and disasters I am going through i’m sure your feel the same.
Since that accident I have had three other cars collide with me, once causing me to have a operation to my arm as I lost feeling in my hand, this stopped me being able to do almost anything as I only really had the use of one hand for two years.
Luckily the other two accidents I was not injured.
Seriously I get so paranoid now of whats coming next as I seem to be cursed to receive a very unpleasant life.
So to conclude my problems in life my current situation is that the demands of life and my current life’s problems has resulted in myself and my wife and the two children to try and live off a few hundred pounds per month. This causes so much stress within the house. My children are now 11 and 13 and there life expenses has increased immensely. The repairs to my house just seem to keep growing.
I have tried with the government for help which they replied no they can not help.
So I have just run out of ideas as to what to do, which brings me to this site which I looked up through blogs. If there was any help anything which would help me and my family to try and get a foothold back in-life then that help at the moment would be a life saver as I just can not go on in life like this feeling what ever I do just turns in to a nightmare.
I can not borrow money as thats what I did to try and get out of one mess which resulted in me getting in to even more of a mess, Ive since started a debt help plan to help with that matter which lasts 5 years, So I cant borrow money.
If there were someone out there willing to help then maybe a donation would help, in fact that would help so much. A donation could help restore my broken house and help with daily living for me and my family. A donation could also help towards purchasing a work van and I could try and employ someone to help me start a decorating business, yes I would have some pain but limited and I could have a hip replacement as that could further my career and give me more movement in my hip.
Sorry my story is so long and sorry if I come across some what begging and depressed but I have just run out of what to do.
Thanks for taking the time to read my life story.