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For three years, life has felt like a constant struggle. Three years ago, I lost my job in the digital marketing industry here in Sri Lanka, a time that coincided with our country’s economic crisis plus other reasons. It felt like the rug was pulled out from under me.
In that desperate state, I made a terrible mistake. Looking for a quick way back on my feet, I lost a significant amount of money – all my life savings – through bad investment decisions. I wasn’t gambling, but the behaviour might as well have been. I learnt my lesson the hardest way possible. Now, at 35, single again and I’m back living with my parents, who are wonderful people, retired medical professionals in their late 60s. They have been incredibly supportive, but I feel a deep sense of guilt knowing they shouldn’t have to bear this burden. They deserve so much better than this.
I tried everything to get back on my feet, but everything just seemed to go wrong. I fell into a survival mentality, constantly stressed about making ends meet. The worst part? I ended up being in debt to the closest people I’ve ever known and I knew they were struggling at the time they lent me money. I lost their money too with some directions I chose which I thought at the time was the right decision with a scarcity mindset. I know it’s not entirely my fault that these decisions went wrong because as a fact I know some scammers involved. But I take full responsibility for picking those paths even when I was in doubt but trusted and hoped them to go my way due to my desperateness. Some good people got affected too with my downfall. I need to give them back as well.
Here’s the thing, I know I have potential. In my past career, I thrived in the Digital marketing world, especially Social Media and Digital Advertising. I want to channel that knowledge to help small and medium businesses flourish. However, to be successful, I need to stay updated with the latest trends and tools – something I can’t afford right now.
Even basic research and technical tools, essential for any freelancer, are out of reach due to the drastic exchange rate between Sri Lankan Rupees (LKR) and US Dollars (USD). Also, they are recurring monthly costs. Part-time jobs aren’t a common option here, so I’m stuck hopping between small freelance gigs that barely cover basic needs.
My biggest dream? Moving to Dubai to expand my work horizons. The demand for my skills is massive there, and being just a 4.5-hour flight away allows me to stay close to my parents. While a past trading mistake left me with financial scars, I’ve learned from those mistakes and am confident in my ability to succeed with the right tools and support.
This isn’t about getting rich; it’s about breaking free from the cycle of survival, and scarcity mindset and stepping into a future of abundance. I want to give my parents the care they deserve, and finally build a life that reflects my potential.
A small contribution from you could make a world of difference.
Every donation, no matter the size, will help me access the resources I need to finally break free from this struggle. It would mean the chance to finally achieve my goals, contribute to the community, and most importantly, give back to the incredible parents and the closest who have always supported me.
If my story resonates with you, please consider donating. Together, we can turn this fight for survival into a journey towards a brighter future.
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