After 25 years my wife tells me she wants a divorce. I had to literally beg her to get counseling with me. She did but would set on the divorce. She never gave me a reason; just only said she wanted a divorce. I asked her, was it someone else, but she would only reply that she wanted a divorce. She started sleeping in our guest bedroom and not speaking to me. It was the most hurtful thing that I can remember happening to me other than the death of loved ones. Over the 25 years I had caught her a few times or more (I lost track) speaking to other men, ex-boyfriends and guy friends prior to us meeting one another. She always said she would stop communicating with them and it was because I wasn’t giving her enough attention. I’ve heard her tell them she loved them and wanted them to meet our children – one time she was on the phone and didn’t know I had come home. A matter of fact is that she was never satisfied; as soon as she got what she wanted, she wanted more – every time. We started off in our marriage with very little. We both wanted children, and I told her I would work as much as needed to provide everything we needed plus more, and she did not have to work. Although I made good money as an engineering technician, she told me she wanted to work, therefore I worked 2 jobs by picking up a second part-time job working at night so she could go to school and become a nurse. Upon her completion, it helped a lot as a two-income family. She was excited because she had very little growing up and no one to encourage her to do more in any positive way. It was good to see her excel and being promoted into management. She would come home and complain, I would listen to her and provide feedback carefully.
She even went to the courthouse and filed for divorce. Finally, after two years, I signed the divorce papers. All those years, I took care of her and our two boys, everything (including credit) was in my name, so I just kept all the debt, because I could not trust her to pay anything. She left me $100,000 in debt and I (not her) continued to financially support our two children that were in college. I’m in my mid-50s, it would be nice to put a good size dent in all this debt, and I really would appreciate assistance.
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