We had it all going living a modest life with our kids until April 2022, when I experienced the most dramatic and terrifying situation of my life the loss of my unborn child. Carrying her for 9 months and not having the privilege of holding her was unbearable. I stayed home for four months with the hopes to heal, and resume work strong and ready to deliver at work and home as usual. I was wrong, I held up at work but at home I was depressed, full of anxiety and soon ran into chronic insomnia, nerves and hormonal imbalance. The doctors said I had mental health issues, but my surrounding said I am ungrateful and just exaggerating. In my culture, stilled birth is considered evil, and the parents most not mourn for the child. Easy said than done, what about the monthly antenatal, the preparations and expectations all of that gone as a dream.
My loan installment must be settled accordingly if not our house will be at risk of being taken over by the bank. It is for this reason that I sincerely tender this request for financial help from good will people. From this part of the world immediate family is not the only family you worry about, as I have to cater for my mother, grandmother and siblings as well who are still in school. Having all of these to worry about is not really enhancing the healing process for me. My aim is to clear my loan to secure our house and to eventually set up a small business to permit me gain back my financial independence.
Thank you all!