hi, me and my fiancee Olivia have been together for 3 years, engaged for almost 2, we are incredibly happy and we always try to do our best to save and save for our future. Unfortunately, i struggle with saving because I dont make enough money at work to save as much as I would like to. We really want to get married in the next 5 years time on my late grandfathers birthday on the 4th July :) but we also really really want to have a child. I (on the right) grew up as a single child for most of my life and in 2016 I found out that I had 2 sisters from my blood related father. I was so so happy, I never speak to my “father” anymore though because he just doesn’t care. But I was blessed with the most amazing stepfather who I have called my Dad since day 1 of meeting him, when I was just a year old. And he was only 17 then. He and my mum divorced a few years ago but he’s still here for me! I’m so lucky. So it proves that love doesn’t always have to just come from blood. My DAD ❤ helped me and Olivia with our first month’s rent and deposit in our lovely little flat. Which we’ve now paid him back for and never stop thanking him for everything he does for us. we’ve just signed a new year’s lease agreement because the area is perfect, especially for kids to grow up. But eventually we will need a 2nd bedroom and a bit more space.
The point in this BIG ASK is that, yes straight couples struggle to get pregnant also, but if you’re a woman in a relationship with another woman, its very difficult. And it can become expensive. And sometimes the treatment doesn’t always work the first time around. I just want to be a mother, for my mum to see me fully happy would mean the world to me and I want my grandparents to see how happy I am raising their grandchildren.
I feel so cheeky even posting this, even though I’ve heard that it’s a good site like go fund me. I still feel awkward asking for someone’s help who I do not know. But this is the most life changing, amazing thing and I’ve dreamt of this for so many years, I’m 25 in December and Olivia is 25 this June. And we are always surrounded by children and as much as I love my friends having kids, it makes me a little bit upset because it’s not so easy for me and liv to just plan it and go ‘you know what, let’s try and make a baby’ because we can’t. So anyone out there who’s willing to help.. Thank you in advance, this is my dream and my only goal in life xx
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