Hello, I am a 53 year old woman from Connecticut and live in the home I was raised in that my father still owns. I am looking for financial help to re-locate to Tennessee. I was raised in Connecticut and I have taken care of people and my family my entire life. I am seeking freedom from the madness. As a teenager I took care of my mother who was sick with cancer until she died when I was 18. I married my childhood boyfriend who became an abusive crack addict so I divorced him and I raised 3 children on my own, twins who are 31 and a 22 year old girl now. I put myself through school to get my degree while working 3 jobs. I dedicated my life to help those with addiction and my children became addicted to drugs. I continue to work in the field of social services helping those with addiction and mental illness but I am burnt out. There is an ugly custody battle in my family for my grandson who belongs to my youngest daughter and my oldest daughter who has guardianship of him and a horrible, dominating bully of a boyfriend 20 years her senior who propositioned me in my kitchen. I raised my grandson for 2 years on my own but fell into illness when I hit menopause and developed pre-diabetes and thyroid problems. I had to relinquish custody of him to care for myself for a year and in that year I lost 100 lbs, got rid of my diabetes and thyroid problems but by then my oldest daughter was already enthralled with this bully of a man and I was cut off from seeing my grandson by him. I believe he is being abused but because there are no grandparent rights in CT, when I reported it, I cannot know what is going on or how he is. I love my grandson dearly but cannot see him as there are no grandparent rights in Connecticut, I am heartbroken and cry every night over it. My father who is 82 and re-married a very wealthy woman after my mother dies, who has since died and left him a fortune has been holding the house against me for years dangling it in front of my face, I was told that the house would be mine, I have done as much as I could to upkeep the house I pay the taxes on it as well and he always has some reason why he won’t give me the deed threatening that if I cannot care for him in the way he is accustomed that he will sell the house out from under me. I desperately want to take care of him but he is not happy with my income and feels that he will not have the life he is accustomed to if he lives with me. I have given my heart to Jesus Christ. I pray that my family gets it together but I cannot take it anymore. I want to leave and I want to live the rest of my life happy. I have had enough of being bullied, mocked because I had never made as much money as my brother did who incidentally refuses to care for my father but is fighting to get what what he feels he deserves from my father before my father is even deceased. My father does not want to go into a nursing home, he outright refuses because he says they will take all his money so my brother and his wife continue to try to get control of his finances. They told me that they would control the money while I took care of my father and I agreed with this because all I wanted to do was see my father happy in his last years even if I had to use my meager wages to do it but it is not enough for him so he stays in the house that my step brother owns who incidentally is a probate lawyer with millions of dollars, my father has life use of the house so he can legally stay there until he dies but he has medical problems that need attention and he will not leave and will not use any money to live in assisted living and he will not live with me as his standards are wayyy above what I can provide. So, here I sit working, heart broken and feeling like a loser because I feel as though I failed my grandson, my father and my children and I’m sick of it. It isn’t fair. I’m a good person but i’m just so sick of it. No one in my family appreciates me whatsoever and i’m over it. I am able to get a job with my bachelors degree in the social services field anywhere I go in the states and I have chosen Tennessee. I want a chance for a nice life and I want to meet new people who might actually appreciate me in their lives. I would love to see some of the world as I have never had a chance to travel. I would just like to ask for enough money to re-locate to Tennessee, perhaps to rent an apartment for a year and enough to get some of my things there with a U-Haul truck. I can work and buy new things when i’m there. I want to have a chance for a nice, fun life without having to care for someone else for once. I have to let go and let God. This story is true and if you think that is crazy, I literally have enough for a Netflix series. Please let me know if you can help.