We have looked into everything to build this house. We understand what it entails. We also understand what a big favor that we are asking! We don’t feel waiting would benefit anything at this point. We would lose the perfect property and the house. The interest rates are low right now and we can do it financially. A little background on me and our story. My name is Kim (if you haven’t guessed) I have a 13 year old son named Carson. I got divorced when he was under a year old. My ex husband abandoned us and went and found a new family. So I moved in with my mom and step dad. They have helped me with everything and I am grateful for that. When Carson was little he didn’t walk right away, he didn’t talk right away, he would do things that other babies that I had been around didn’t do. He would bang his head on the floor as hard as he could. As he got older he would destroy things around him by throwing everything on the floor off of an end table, lamps, Knick knacks, anything that he could reach. If you dared said the word no he would scream and bang his head on the floor, the walls, against my head! He would try to get me to do something or if he wanted something and I was unable to understand it everything started again. I of course had him in the pediatricians office and they had therapist come to the house in what they call a birth to 3 program. They tried to get him to talk or at least get him to be able to communicate to me what he wanted. After he turned 3 he was sent to regular school here in Mukwonago. The bus actually came to our house and picked him up for early childhood and speech class. That is when he finally started talking! His first word besides momma was Gunky…for monkey! When he was 4 years old I was able to take him in to see a pediatric psychologist. They did a lot of testing with him that lasted all day. The doctor then brought me in the room and said that she can give me her diagnosis now or I can wait for the official paperwork. Of course I couldn’t wait. She looks at me and my mom and said he has Autism! I was devastated! I thought that I had done something wrong and had given it to him! That I must have did something wrong when I was pregnant. Plus I never once thought that he could be autistic! But after learning about autism the signs were all there. He would put his matchbox cars in a straight line and if they were moved he would be upset. He barely ate any foods and so much more stuff! From then on I become not only his mom but his advocate! I got him approved for in home autism therapy. He had that up until 2 years ago. We had a therapist here before school and after school working with him. He has come such a long way. He now is so smart and was on the honor roll last semester! If I didn’t tell you he was autistic you might not even know! Aaron and I have been in a committed relationship for 2 years now. We were friends for 6 months prior. I plan on marrying him and him being my forever. I accept all of his flaws and he accepts mine. He accepts my son and goes over and above to spend time with him and learn how to handle the meltdowns and when to leave him to himself. Please don’t take Aaron’s past transgressions against him. He is not the same person anymore. Like I have said before he is different with me and he is wonderful to my son. Within this last year he has paid off any collections that he has had and has taken the initiative to get into that ticket to work program! He is thinking of taking college classes too. I support him in everything including getting him on the correct medications that have him on the right track now. He has proven a lot to me. This is the next step for us a home and being a family. Aaron is a lot like my son. He craves love and stability. He needs things to be consistent and I want to do that for them both. I love them very much. I wish that I knew that not having revolving credit it would damage my credit. I hate to be on the mercy of someone else’s kindness. Our parents can’t help us. That is the only family that we have. Thank you for listening to us ramble on.
this is the home we want to build
https://www.korndoerferhomes.com/floor-plans/detail/geneva