Thank you for taking the time to read this i am very grateful and any outcome from yourself will be very appreciated.
Firstly let me introduce myself, my name is Holly and i am 22 years old from the UK. I am currently expecting my first child in September and me and my partner are struggling mentally we have a lot of anxiety and depression between us and we are have a huge debt on our shoulders. we are also trying to save for our own home as at the moment we are in a cycle of renting with a family member and not being able to save. any advice / donations are massively received and appreciated , i also have an amazon wish list for the baby items as we need everything for a baby.
My partner is struggling especially with some form of anxiety he gets very stressed and gets himself sick constantly meaning he misses work. he does not feel he can speak to a GP as it does not make him feel like the stereotypical man. He constantly does not come to bed and will sit in the living until ridiculous hours not knowing what to do. it is a vicious circle that we are not sure how will end.
With the baby due in September we are trying to get all our finances in place so we can give the baby the best possible life and situation we can! But with debt and not being able to afford very much we are finding this very hard , we would hate to not be able to provide for our child and it is very hard and upsetting to have this on our shoulders.
if you would like to get some more information i will be happy to provide. i really want to do this especially for my partner as i want him to be in the right state of mind when our baby comes as it is causing such suffering.
If you do have any advise you can give me.