Hi, let me start off my saying thank you for taking the time to read about me and how I would so kindly like your help.
I have been looking after my disabled partner for the past 5 years Day In day out helping him with his pains and aches, back in 2017, once I had my partners illness in remission I thought I would be able to return to work just on a 2 night a week basis leaving my son with my partner who could cope with his disease in remission. I started work everything was going fine I was working as a care assistant as I have done since I was 18 (now 24 with breaks for caring Inbetween) as a result of me working 22 hours a week we had our benifits cut which we was expecting due to the extra money from work but to have them stopped all together was something I did not think they could do, with a child of the age on 2 years we was living off my £500 a month wage & my child’s £20 a week. Hence to say we/I got in a lot of debt just to survive and pay bills.
some people have family to help them I just had family to take the mick out off me and get me in more debt. Getting my friend to be a guarantor to help my mum would be the worse decision of my life. 3 years later I now have a ccj of 6500 and my mother denying she owes me.
I stuggled living off loans for the next year my partner at this stage could still not go to work as he is still in constant pain and was deteriorating at this point. Once the benifits was resolved my partner was back out of remission due to stress. Which lead me to quitting work my son missing a lot of nursery and our general lives falling down around us. And we have been living on the edge of life since. I’ve felt so useless as I’m the one that is responsible for these humans welfare and I can’t provide basic care for them.
They said to ask for an amount but to add all my debts up and face them is a scary thing to face on my own
we are currently struggling with no food in the house due to debts coming out of the benifits and no food in the cupboards
any donations to help me get food in the cupboards or clear the debts is greatly greatly appreciated.
Thanks for taking time out to read this again.