Hi, this is something definitely cray for me, asking anyone! In general for money or anything at that matter. :( I like to be independent and I love working for what I have.
I do not ABSOLUTELY need the help as I do have a full time job, but oh my gosh would it super help. My life finally! Was going in the right step forward.. all my bills paid.. a little extra spending cash for my pups, life at a 10/10 happiness. For the past 2 years now I have worked for the USPS.. but help would just be such a blessing at the moment. I am pretty good with budgeting and very responsible with my paychecks but I just hate that I can not save fast enough to put my stress at ease. I am true to my word. It’s something that I have been brought up on, being honest and genuine and I really really take pride in that, above all. I am a (just turned) 25 year old female with 2 babygirl puppies (both not even a year old yet) I grew up on a farm in a middle class family that worked their ass off for everything they have. I am grateful for them, so so grateful.
To get to the point of why I am asking for help would be I have recently got a DUI. :( I just really really do not want this dui impacting my life as much as the law wants it too. I have super learned from my mistakes. AND I mean it. Me and my dad actually have made a pact together that we swore on each others lives to not drink and drive ever again, no matter what. (Not one beer, not two, sober af only) My dad is also my #1… so, when I told him I swore, I do mean it. I am so very grateful that this DUI only affected me and that absolutely nobody was harmed. That is what would of ruined my life.. if I would of hurt another human or animal… gosh, I don’t even like to think about it. And that’s exactly why, no matter what. I’m learning from my mistakes… and rather then being hard on myself, I’m taking it as a lesson learned. A very costly, lesson learned. But it is all a part of growing, good people make mistakes.
If anyone… anyone takes their time to read this, thank you! For me, asking for money is insane because my whole life I’ve watched all of my family work their asses off for it. And I swear, personally, money means nothing to me. I strictly try to live off just being at peace and being happy.
This dui so far has already taken $2000 that I had been very proud of myself to save.
My lawyer has told me to just bring as much cash as I possibly could to court to try to get a lesser sentence. (Of course! Money cures everything right…..)
Also, I am going to add (in my personal opinion) that the traffic law system is seriously so fucked up. It’s all a money scheme… they could give a fuck less if I would of hurt someone, they would care less if I went to jail and lost my job and my puppies, and my whole 25 years of responsible life bc of one mistake that I had made, all they care about is getting their thousands and thousands of dollars. And it’s sad.
Sidenote rant: people get away with murder… yet, you get a dui, license suspended for a year, meanwhile maintaining your own job, while putting close friends and families members life at strain because they must give you rides just so you can get to and from work. My lawyer had actually said that in many cases of dui license suspension that the suspended driver will not drive until they have a month left of suspension, get pulled over and end up going to jail for upto 15 years. I am sorry for this added extra rant. I do know that driving drunk is so scary and precious lives have been lost due to recklessness. I will forever better myself from this experience whether I pay for this my whole entire self or some angel blesses me with a donation. It’s not about the money and I hope that someday I will be able to be in position to help somebody out. Somebody that appreciates it and somebody that will learn from their mistakes. To take stress off of someone’s back. I hope one day I will be able to help.
anyways, this is the absolute first time I’ve ever heard of this website and if anyone has anything that they are willing to donate, I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I would absolutely love to pay you back at some point in time. Thank you, again. Thank you!
If anyone would like to contact me via paypal message center, I am open to any kind of help or ideas. If not, I know this isn’t the end of the world and everything will buff itself out. :)
****this is a pic of my puppies* nothing to do with the dui, but they are happiness to me and they keep my mind in a happy place. *****