I have 3 brothers all are fine financially but they have never been generous EVER for any occasion. They are the kind of men you could never just say…hey can you loan me £50, please. No matter how dire your life is they were raised by our mother a not-very-nice lady who taught them to not care for their sisters. And it does not make me happy to write that but it is true and took me into my adult life to recognise that mother just did not care for any of her daughters…you were like slaves to her {that is a West African thing} and those of us who know….just KNOW.
Since September I have been homeless with my younger sister who is Bipolar and frankly I cannot cope with her as she has such terrible outbursts whereby she will scream at me for ages and sometimes I am just too scared to be around here. Not because she is violent per se but more because I cannot take her endless screaming and insults. I have been booking places for us to stay she could have helped but she spent all her money online shopping. I work after being out of work for many, many years and not because I am stupid…far from it. I have been working since this year but being homeless and working is not fun at all. I feel stressed out and sad because I text and emails my brother every day for help and every day they ignore me. Our moved passed away a few years ago and even if she were alive would not make a difference because you cannot alter what you created. My mother hated females and valued males which is why my brothers, not the smartest men at all, all have an overwhelming arrogance and smog ways about them.