Im Zee, recently married and I’m in a huge situation. Back in November 2020 , a family member was in need of financial help. It was a close family member , this person started driving trucks with my brother to stay afloat . His truck however kept breaking down. He needed to get the truck fixed in order to continue working. That’s where I came in, I trusted that I would be repaid sooner than later , however that was not the case. The truck was sold without my knowledge and I’m still waiting on compensation. I really believe I will never see the money and have been working overtime to pay down this debt.
Soon after my husband and I started to look for a home , this was very scary for me because I did not expect to start the home searching/buying process as soon as we did. I thought I’d have time to pay off my credit card debt without my husband finding out that I helped my family. I ended up telling him of course , and you can imagine how upset he was. So here we are June 2020 , we close on our first home in July and I still have lingering debt , I should be preparing to furnish and decorate my new home, but I cant. This has been a huge lesson for me , I know better next time to always consult my mate in any financial situation!!
Please if you can find it in your warm souls to help out a newlywed couple , we’d be so appreciative. I’ll send you a thank you card , cookies , brownies , whatever you want.
thank you for reading <3