Everyone needs help sometimes, right? I have been running into unfortunate events back-to-back. I have explained in more detail below the events leading up to the position I am in now. all the sleepless nights and being emotionally drained and just exhausted. I need help to get out of this horrible downwards spiral I seem to be stuck in. I’ve been struggling with a mice infestation at my apartment which used to be my mom’s I got to keep it after she passed. This infestation has affected my kids, my mental health and well-being. the landlord solution has been to place sticky trapes. She has placed a total of 8 over a 9-month period. My apartment isn’t mine. The mice ran into my apartment. You see a mouse at least once every 5 min 24/7. My son can’t crawl safely without mice dropping everywhere. Hès 11 months old and isn’t walking yet. has been bitten by them, I as well have been bitten. I have found dead mice in my bed random places in my apartment, along with 8 baby mice in my daughters shoe. They have ruined my bed and my couches they have chewed holes in the cushions. You can hear them squealing running through/ under my couch. My furniture was brand new. These are just a few of the events that have happened. I don’t have any place to go. My mom has passed away in dec 2022 and my grandma passed on 0ct 7 2023. I don’t have any more family. My friends you may ask? I’m barely getting out of an abusive relationship. Ims till trying to successfully escape. He terrorizes me whenever he feels like it. The abuse ranges from him just being mean to breaking my jaw. In order to move I need to pay the rent that my mom was unable to pay when she had her stroke. I was making payments on it up until my car got stolen in June. My car was to old to be covered if it got stolen. Its been extremely hard being without it. Id goes to the swap meet on the weekends so I could have an income. No car= no income. I cannot keep groceries in the house. It is beyond difficult to get to Dr. apt. In Feb 2023 I had to get all my teeth removed. I received a pair of dentures that don’t fit in my mouth. I’m only 28 yrs. old. It’s beyond embarrassing. I really need some help. I would be forever grateful for your help. To be able to be comfortable and in a healthy environment, just to be able to sleep without worrying that the mice are going to get my kids. What would mean even more is moving to a new place we all wouldn’t be looking over our shoulders for my ex. To be able to feel safe would make a big difference with my daughter’s ability to adapt to change. I could never thank you enough for changing our lives!
If I’m able to be sponsored I will take care of the past due rent move to a new place and purchase a car so my family can be back to self-efficacy.
I had my youngest daughter in oct 2019 and watching her grow I begin to notice she is not meeting her milestones. So, at 9 months we went to the Dr., and she was too young for treatment or evaluations for any sort of disability. She would walk sideways, and she did not point at things, nor did she talk. At 2 years old she barely said 10 words and would not always use the words she did know and seemed to forget the words. She would wake up screaming, not just crying, a skin crawling scream at least 3 times every night. She has night terrors every night this has been happening since she was born. We are still trying to figure out a solution for the night terrors and she turns 4 on oct 14 2023 and she has come such a long way.
On March 3rd, 2022. I had finished fixing my mom’s car, so she headed home to get ready for work. She made it upstairs to her bedroom and collapsed, she had a stroke. Lucky her boyfriend was there and was able to help her and called me, so I was able to get within 6 mins. The paramedics took her to the hospital. She lived, after sleeping for 2 weeks without any medicine to keep her sedated, she awoke to realize she no longer could use the right side of her body. During this time, I find out I am pregnant with my 3rd child and the months leading up to this I had just finally got my life together. My own apartment got my mom’s old car on the road, so she gave it to me, a relationship, kids are happy. I was happy everything was going well. Well, she had a stroke and went to a specialty hospital. Where she was treated very badly. They left containers of pee on her nightstand. The nurses did not respond to the light. My mom then realizes she has lost her independence her mobility ND now has to depend upon others for her daily living needs. She spends 4 months between the nursing home and the hospital. She is finally able to return home but needs care 24/7. Of course, I do what any person would do for their mom. I pause my life and go to take care of her. I kept my apartment for 2 months and it just wasn’t sense able to keep it any longer since I wasn’t really able to leave her. Well So now it’s me pregnant with my son, my two daughters, my children’s father, and my mom living in a two-bedroom apt. The apt is not suitable for my mom. The shower is upstairs and now we have to stay in the living room since the bedrooms are upstairs also. We had to put up a tiny tent on our porch so she could shower. My mom quickly declined and the conditions we were living in really didn’t help. (we will come back to the conditions in just a sec) my mom would end up in the hospital monthly she couldn’t breathe right and just was not improving. I had to call an ambulance on dec 1 2022. My mom was making animal sounds and just acting very strangely. When the paramedics arrived, they did their assessment and during the assessment my mom went limp. They put the oxygen on and all of a sudden, she inhaled but looking at her I could tell there was something seriously wrong. They transport her to the hospital, and she’s put on life support. They admitted. her as a trauma patient, and I was unable to find her for 2 days… I finally get threw and find her and the Dr gets on the phone and asks if we had talked about comfort measures. My mom had brain damage and couldn’t breathe on her own. I get a second opinion make sure there is nothing else that could be done. She passed on dec 10 2022
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