Hello, I am Val Ramos. I am a Brazilian woman who moved to the US in 2007 to study and to experience a different. The plans was to stay here for 1 year, but started a relationship and got married in 2010.
My dream was always to get back home to be with my family, but the husband always had an excuse to not move back. It was always next year.
At the beginning he used to be the most adorable man and used to say I was the “woman of his life” .
Since the day one of this relationship I worked hard to help him to get his dream realized, to be a pilot. Pilot courses are so expensive and I was always holding up the bills on the house for him to pay for his training.
In 2014 I got my US Citizenship
Finally back in 2014/2015 he got his flight instructor certification.
Also in 2014 we both decided it was time for us to grow our family. I got pregnant, but I had a miscarriage. So finally in May 2015 another positive test.
Then in June he said what about if we move to Florida. Over there it is easy for me to get a flight instructor job. I could not move to FL on the position I used to hold. So we both agreed he would move first then I would go as soon as I could get a position where I could work remote.
The time passed by and I could never get a position and my anxious started to grow because I was by myself in a state and afraid that something could happen with me and I had no one to help me and the baby. Finally in November 2015 I was able to get a remote position and moved.
When I got in Florida he did not let me have contact with some people, but I thought it was because I was almost 9 months pregnant and tired and he wanted me to rest.
Our lovely daughter born and he was every day he was more far away from me. Never helped me with the baby. In 2016 he was 5 months away from home for a training and I was holding everything home. Working full time and taking care of an infant.
He then came back home saying he wanted to work on the town because he missed out little one.
But day after day he was more strange and always hiding his phone. Back in June during a vacation in Brazil I discovered he has a mistress since I was pregnant. He met and started his relationship with her when I was pregnant in another state waiting to move to Florida. And during this time he had no job in Florida and I was paying for all the bills and his living cost in Florida.
His lover is from another country and this year he brought her to the US and to live close by our house. He wanted to keep both of us, but I discovered the relationship.
I have asked for him to leave the house, but our little one was suffering so much, so we talked and I told him I would forgive him if he was back to us and never had a contact with the mistress again. He came back home but I founded he continued contact with her.
So I then told him to leave the house and that I wanted the custody and authorization to move with our little one to Brazil. He does not want to give me this.
We also bought a house last year which the mortgage is just on my name and most of the money n it was mine, but he wants his part.
So I am raising some money to pay for a lawyer and to pay for a container to take my belongs to Brazil.
I will also need to start my life in Brazil and try to buy a house, but now sure how since I have no income there.
I think I will need between no less than $20k to start with my expenses.
Any help is appreciated.
God Bless you.