Please help massive shit fight
Hi, I’m going to start off by saying, I’m not feeling to proud about having to beg for help. But unfortunately the last few months have really left me with no other choice.
So I’ll start with some happy news, my wife and I had our first child, a little boy that we named Ollie. My wife’s pregnancy wasn’t straightforward but it also wasn’t a disaster and Ollie was born healthy and happy. So we get Ollie home and for about a week everything seemed great, that was until we get a knock on the door early one morning from one of our neighbours that lived below us in the apartment block we were living in. He asked if we had a water leak in our apartment, as he was having water leaking through his ceiling. I told him no and went back to feeding Ollie, and everything seemed fine, that was until we started to hear a gurgling coming from the sink.
I get up to investigate the gurgling, and go to check the bathroom and ensuite and thats when things got really bad. The gurgling turned into flooding. Flooding from the shower drains and the floor waste drains in both bathrooms and laundry. Now I’m not talking about lovely clean fresh water, oh no, it was flooding raw sewerage and urine from ever apartment above us.
Now this isn’t ideal with a nine day old newborn and a mother who had just had a cesarean, so I got them out as soon as I could and that left me to deal with the literal shit fight that had just begun. Using every towel and soft furnishing I had, I built dams to try and stem the tide and redirect the water, but this was all in vain. There was no way I was stopping the flow and within about half an hour our bedrooms were flooded.
So you are probably thinking now, well why didn’t you call strata or the building manager or your property manager? I did, multiple times, I got absolutely bugger all in response from these people, and it took them four hours to call a plumber to assist.
By the time the plumber arrived, the apartment was done, rendered totally uninhabitable by the river of shit and piss running through it and out the door.
I can say though, the flood wasn’t out fault. A blockage 3 floors down from us was the culprit.
So why am I asking for money? Because we have been forced to move and to find temporary accommodation for our cats that were living in the apartment. The costs of these unforeseen expenses plus my wife’s medical bills pluss the cost of storing what possessions and furniture that survived has absolutely wiped me out financially and I could use any help if you are willing. Thank you in advance if you do. I also have a million very disgusting photos if you need proof, also feel free to email me so I can go into the finer details if you want.my PayPal link is paypal.me/brendanstarrollie 
Please save my children
First I’ll introduce myself, I’m a single mother to three beautiful children. I was always the child that could never do anything right in my families eyes. I’m the first born daughter and was basically made to do everything from cooking, cleaning, shopping I didn’t have a proper childhood. I raised my baby brother and sister at the age of 9. I thought it was normal and how the whole family thing worked. I would get treated so poorly if I did something the wrong way or didn’t do anything at all when asked but no matter what I would constantly put them before myself until I had my son at 17 years old. He wasn’t planned nor did I have a say in the matter but in all honesty I wouldn’t change anything for the world because he changed my life around from that very moment I saw my son for the very first time. Being a mother it opens your eyes and your mind, thoughts on how can I give this precious baby the life he deserves, so I walked out of those doors and never looked back.
I have been supporting myself and my children with no immediate family, friends just me and I am now 32 years old. I thought life was perfect and I couldn’t be anymore happier. I found an amazing man that treated my son and I the way you could only dream and wish for. Life was great! We had been together for 10 whole years but it wasn’t happy ever after the moment it was 7 years into our relationship. What changed I dont know. You know we all thought at one stage in our lives or have heard, when someone is in an abusive relationship ‘why don’t they just leave’ that was me until I went through the unimaginable. The pain, the broken bones, the dislocations, the blood, the bruises and the nasty/mean words that destroy every ounce of you. How worthless you feel and being so petrified from all the threats.
My children (my god my children) I have stood in the way of this monster raging at my children and would take every bit of anger from this man to save my kids. I have been beaten black and blue to save my children they mean so much to me and I could never see or have anything bad happen to them especially from this horrible human being. This has been going on the 3 years. I thought I was going to die, he was going to kill me, what would happen to my children if I weren’t here anymore? Where did my strength go? The one that got me far away from my family. I don’t have anywhere to go. I have no one to help me. He smashed my car so I wouldn’t leave, he damage the house I’m renting, he smashed my children’s gaming computer because I said it was fine for them to play while he was full of anger, it was only to get them away from him. I will always remember the smiles it brought to their faces when I first got it for them. The only thing they cherished and loved is gone, but it could have been me. Everything I worked hard for is destroyed. Why don’t you call the police? he is the police and that makes everything so much harder for us.
We are now in a 3rd hotel room that I’m using my last bit of savings on, the savings he had no clue about. We saw his mate as we were waiting for the bus to go to the next hotel, he then called my ex saying he found us. You could only imagine the fear we all went through. Fortunately we had left before he arrived. All we have is the clothes on our backs and bags with little few belongings. Carrying our life with us on public transportation to get to another safe place is tiring and scary. My 8 year old daughter is exhausted, my 12 and 14 year old sons are willing to do anything to keep us safe even if it means walking for hours on end to get as far away as possible. I feel I let my children down as a parent. I put the blame on myself for them being in this situation. No child should have to go through anything like this. I’ve never been a person to ever ask for help my entire life. I need to leave the state and move away as far as possible for the safety of my children and myself.
Thank you for taking the time to read this through. I hope you’re all doing well and one day I hope I’ll get back up there giving my children the life they deserve.
Much love VB ❤ paypal.me/vickib303
Need to get out of debt
I was married and we lost money when the global financial crisis came we lost our house and went into debt we got divorced and my husband left me with $120,000 in debt I just feel sick as I have all this debt and nothing to show for it and wish anyone can help me
if you can help me I will be very grateful as I am struggling with depression and also managing my debt
paypal.me/rzaccheo1
Extreme circumstance, desperate for assistance
I feel dreadfully uncomfortable writing this. I’m a single mother of 3, 2 with special needs. I’ve always been fiercely independent and have worked since I was 14. The past two years I’ve had major health issues and my little family have taken one hit after another. In July, my daughter opened up about sexual abuse she experienced on a daily basis throughout 2020 in the school library. My son was forced to witness and threatened not to tell. He stopped talking in august last year. The school are trying to cover the abuse so I am now forced to homeschool my two traumatised children whilst taking them to their therapy and medical appointments and dealing with my own health issues. Because of this, I cannot work at the moment and have gone without my medication so my children can have theirs for the last 3 weeks, the power company are calling daily as my bill is 4 months overdue. I can’t cover my rent let alone groceries, bills, meds or fuel. My children will no longer play in their own yard because the perpetrator lives 3 doors down. We have to move, they are scared and keep checking locks every 5 mins. I am packing boxes but I have no idea where they will go or how we will move. We have not even $5 to our name. I’ve always been terrible at accepting help let alone asking for it. But I have to swallow my pride for my children. If anyone is kind enough to help this will be paid forward when we work out how to get back on our feet as I am definitely more comfortable giving than taking. I have attached photos to prove this has happened but have blocked out sections for privacy reasons. I haven’t slept in 3 days worrying about how to keep a roof over my children’s head whilst trying to act normal so I don’t add to their trauma. I feel powerless, out of control and defeated. This is my worst nightmare. Any donation would be so appreciated. Even if for just milk and bread. I would be so so grateful. Would not dream of writing this but I don’t have a choice, I am desperate. Please help.
https://paypal.me/amyfilgate1?locale.x=en_AU
In need of a normal life!
I’m here because I have come to the last resort. We all have dreams and aspirations, some dreams are bigger than others and some dreams are minor. My dream is just to live a normal life, by normal I mean is to be able to pay rent and bills and not be in arrears, to be able to not struggle on a daily basis and search for a dollar in the couches. To be able to say yes to my children if they want to go and have lunch with me. I just want a means to an end. I’m tired of constantly struggling to find a means to an end. I am a single mother from birth with twins. They are now teenagers.
I know I know there are many single mothers out there who are doing it tough. Here is my story…
Since my kids were born I have struggled and hustled. Never ever have I been on government payments. I am a chef by trade…although I had to put my dreams and aspirations of working in the industry on pause. When my kids were around 6 months Old, I started to make food from home and try to sell it through word of mouth. I was earning around $230 a week. My rent was around $400.. I can’t describe the angst, anxiety and pain I endured emotionally, thinking how am I going to do this. It wasn’t working out. My sister at the time was living interstate regional..she suggested I move there as there is so much potential for me. I packed up my babies and moved to a small town. Four months later I started cleaning houses. I remember taking my kids with me to every clean. Would stop half way cleaning to breast feed them. I started to make a little more money which gave me some relief. I moved out of my sister’s home and rented a property that I could afford. I did this for two years…the struggle and hustle was definitely real. But I kept on thinking of my vision. My vision to open up a little place at the local markets. Save enough money to buy the equipment needed. I wanted to show the world my capabilities and skills. I had put my name down to see if I could get a position to become a stall holder. By now my kids were 3.5years old. When they turned four I finally got accepted. The timing was perfect as I had the option in putting them in pre school. This would give me some leverage to start up.
As all small businesses, trial and error had to occur to succeed. I failed so many times and what I was making wasn’t cutting it. I was at a loss each and everytime and wasn’t making a profit to the point I was out of pocket . Three years later I nailed it and gave my clientele what they needed. I thought this could grow and potentially be a successful business. By now my children were nearly seven years old. So inbetween doing homework with them, tutoring, picking them up and dropping off at school, spending quality time, I was amongst all this prepping all week for one day at the markets.
It got to the point I was utterly exhausted, Afterall I am only human and one person. By the time the kids were 11years old. I finally got round to saving money to expand. To purchase the necessities I needed. I bed for me, washing machine, clothes, books, etc.
I then made enough money to open a little cafe and buy a car. On the side I was also doing catering.
When the kids were around 13. I had met what I thought was my life partner. To break down the details. He turned my life upside down. We were together by now for around three years, I trusted him with everything even my bank card. He had my pin and knew exactly what my financial status was. By all means I wasn’t wealthy I was average comfortable. We had this agreement that we would help his parents that live overseas once a month.
Was sending around $1000 a month to his parents. Then he started to suggest if I can send more because his mother is unwell and needs surgical procedures done. Unfortunately I agreed. $1000 became $2500, then $4000 then $6000. It became ridiculous that my savings were disappearing fast. We broke up as I left him. Distraught, depressed, heart broken as one could imagine.
All my hard work and hustling, swear, tears and struggles went down the drain. I had $130k in my account down to $3k he had robbed me of everything, my children’s college tuition, my deposit to buy a house everything. I was naive, generous, and believed that this was going to be my life partner. He fled the country and basically I couldn’t do anything about it as I had given authority for him to have access to the account.
I struggled with mental health after this for years and my kids witnessed it all. They were confused at to what happened to their bubbly and successful mother.
By then my kids were 18years of age. I did what anyone would do, pick up the pieces and continue to fight and find my way. I am now in drowning in debt and gone back to struggling and poverty strickened. Got help for mental health and trying to find my way. I lost everything..my Business my savings, my goals and dreams and my aspirations.
It was time to leave this small town and move back to a big city for my children’s education and universities studies.
As everyone can appreciate what covid has done to the world. I am in the same boat as everyone. I can’t find a means to an end, I can’t work in the hospitality industry as everything is always locked down.
Anddd this is my story… I don’t want a million dollars nor do I want the luxury things in life. I just want to continue to be that strong Parent to be able to show my children anything is possible.
I will continue to strive, thrive, and persevere and hustle just to live a normal life. I will not allow poverty to dictate my life, nor will I allow my past either.
Whether I receive $1 or $100 I believe it will go a long way.
Upto today I believe that I am blessed, am blessed because God has given me the strength to keep on keeping on.
Thanku to all who has read this and who have and have not donated.
There is light!!!
https://paypal.me/lightrays13?locale.x=en_AU
All I want for Christmas is my 2 front teeth
When I was 7 I slipped on a mental climbing frame and knocked my front tooth into my gum. Over the years I had a lot of work done on this tooth including root canal, various crowns and orthodontics.
Fast forward to me being 34 and finding out that my root canal had now become infected and I would need to get an implant. It took me over a year before I could financially get this procedure and in that time the infection ate away my bone and gums. The implant procedure took close to a year to complete with multiple surgeries and quite a hefty price tag. The finished product turned out horrible due to the amount of gum and bone loss. I now at the age of 36 have been told I need to see a periodontist and specialist to have my gums manipulated and grafted and a new crown and veneer put on my 2 front teeth. It is estimated to cost over $15k I’ve run out of money and have no one in a financial position to help me. I can’t smile without bursting into tears. Please find it in yourself to help a someone who has always funded themselves over and over on the one problem and I keep getting knocked down. This is the only time I haven’t been able to get back up on my own and am asking for a little help.
My PayPal me link is @S1985G I would be so grateful for any help you can give
I got scam
Hi everyone they this past months i got into scam , depression, anxiety and suicidal is in my mind i ever mistake i try to loan and apply for revived debt but they all declined me it come one time to kill myself run away . I try to loan i promise to do my responsible decline me .i really dont now what to do im depress even my child has been affected i dont now how can i pay my debt . i dont now what to do. Can anyone help me i promise to do my responsibilies if lend me money i know because of this hardship where facing today thats why i take a risk and im worthless crying hall month i can eat .praying someone will help me to start again.
I hope you could help to start again my child i s been affected .
https://www.paypal.me/rafjir
Please help myself and kids
Hi, I am a single mother of 4 children, we have been homeless since march, and fled DV, we have just got a house, through church Of Crisis. Unfortunately we lost all our stuff when me and my kids fled due to safety reasons we left with only the clothes on our back. I’m not one to reach out, I would rather go without then ask. It’s hard for me to do this and reach out at this time of need, in help for myself and children. I don’t know how to say or start this. But as I have never had to do this before I’m not sure where to start nor who to contact. but due to fleeing DV in march, I am facing financial hardship and not coping to good. But even worse to know I can’t afford to get food shopping And Unfortunately I don’t have family. I am reaching out for help with food and some furniture. If you or maybe you know where I could start this would mean alot to us and muchly appreciated from myself and kids to you. I am reaching out for a donation amount of $800 please and thank you.
Kind Regards.
Selina Hicks.
Never take anything for Granted
I’m 51 years old, married with three children aged between 11- 19 years old.
In 2019, my wife and I made the very hard decision to place our manufacturing business into Voluntary Administration and eventually the company was found not to be viable and was liquidated.
The company was a long-standing family business, founded by my father then passed onto my brother. In 2014, I was made redundant in my Public Service job and after taking several months off work I took up the opportunity to work for the family business which was then owned by my brother. After 12 months working there, my brother decided he wanted out and offered me to buy the business. If he could not find a buyer by end of that year, he was going to close the business. I was keen to keep it going as it had a great reputation and, I felt this urge to continue the business in honour. However, without doing my due diligence properly and to save on money I relayed heavily on what was given to me by the company’s accountant and financial adviser. In turn this was the biggest mistake I ever made.
I proceeded with the purchase, and as I had very little assets, I borrowed heavily against one of my parents’ investment properties. After 12 months operating the business, it was obvious that business was not profitable as it was made out to be. Despite cutting back on many areas, I was by that stage losing heavily but the accountant who was the same as my brother’s, continued to advise me that all is well. By middle of the second year, I had accrued more debt and struggled to pay bills to suppliers within the agreed payment terms. I was then hit with a tax bill, which I arranged to pay on a payment plan. But this stage the accountant was not returning my calls and when he did, so he was full of ideas to deal with the issue. One of the ideas to assist with cash flow was to charge customer a higher deposit amount. At first it seemed a good idea, but all it did was allow me to pay the back log of bills and eventually that caused further issues.
By the third year owning the business, I had accrued a massive tax debt, I had accounts placed on hold and struggled to pay staff wages. It was May 2019, I went into a deep and dark depression resulting in attempting to take my life. During this whole time, I had not openly told my wife about the financial issues of the business until I was admitted into a mental health facility. By then it was too late to sae the business, but my wife stuck by me and help me go through the hardest days of my life. By August that year we had lost everything but managed to hold onto the house however it was only due to taking out a high interest loan. We were about 6 months in front with our repayments which gave us time to find new jobs and try to refinance the loan. Unfortunately, due to the business failure, and as the sole director of the company, I incurred debt from the business which forced me to go into bankruptcy which I currently have 2 ½ years left to go.
The events of the past 2 years since losing the business had a massive impact on my direct and extended family. Due to my mental state at the time, I was very angry, constantly crying and fell into a deeper depression than before. This behaviour caused so much harm on my two younger children to a point where my youngest started self-harming. Today, with amazing help from various support groups we are still trying to manage their mental wellbeing. Fortunately, following my own hospitalisation earlier allowed me to set up strong support groups and people to carry me through, but my struggles are constant and I’m just operating on a day-to-day basis.
Two years on, the experience has been one that I would never wish upon anyone even those who I class as distant associates. I have had three jobs since Sept 2019, all short-term contracts. Due to the high mortgage repayments I’m pressured to find jobs that are highly paid. My wife struggled to secure long-term jobs eventually finding one at a mush lower pay scale. That has caused me further pressure to pursue high paid work. Unfortunately, with the current pandemic weeping the world and the financial pressures placed on employers high paying opportunities have been hard to come by. Each time my contact was up for renewal, the remuneration was renegotiated at lesser value. Due to the limited options available I would accept each contract hoping to secure a permanent long-term role. This has also forced me to find parttime / casual work which has not been any easy task. The only option available was to take up a role driving taxis which is remunerated by 50% of the shift takings. Usual shift 12 hours at a time which I do from Friday night to Sunday night.
Unfortunately, with my salary decreasing, it is becoming more difficult to maintain my mortgage repayments. We are currently 2 months in arrears. Refinancing is not an option due to my bankruptcy situation and even though selling the home in the currently environment, finding a rental property to accommodate the family has become very difficult with many families on waiting lists.
Our current lender is pressuring us to bring the account to order or face legal action to force the sale of the home. We have explored all options including requesting hep from family & friends. We are now desperate to keep the home as we know this option provides stability that is so much needed for the family especially with the kids schooling and moving to a new house would most likely set back all the hard work over the past two with keeping the family together.
This is where I’m begging for financial help. I propose that if we can have our monthly mortgage repayments covered for 12 months plus paying off the arrears, it would provide a huge relief and ample time for me to focus on securing a permanent job. Having job security will eventually enable us to be in a strong position to refinance our loan to more affordable one.
As a hard-working family, who has paid taxes and never been on unemployment benefits or being a recipient of an already overloaded social security system, I hope my proposal for financial assistance is warranted which will provide me hope that there is light at the end of this tunnel of life.
Target is $55,000 AUS Dollars.
https://www.paypal.com/donate?business=CR82AUQCRETBL&no_recurring=0¤cy_code=AUD
Beat Depression! Make a change
Hi,
I need a change!! I lost everything due to covid 19 and struggling mental health issues.
However I have a plan, to change my life and use it to help people around me.
My plan is to travel around the world, work/ help communities across the globe and never stop.
Whilst also studying and learning about herbology along the way.
About Me:
My name is Liam, I am 30 years old, recently I lost my job and most of personal assets. I am asking for any support to start my journey next year April 2022! And also to start building a financial foundation to travel for many years to come.
Thanks for reading
If you can help link is
https://www.fundmytravel.com/campaign/r0ul4qbNYa
Or
https://paypal.me/liamdl
Thanks
Help me getting back on my feet
Hi,
My name is Mina and I live in Sydney NSW. This takes me a while to do and it is hard for me to put this into words of what has happened for the last few years.
Like others, everyone dream to be financial free, work from home, earn money while you sleep. All the Entrepreneur life style get me looking and searching for ‘E-commerce idea’.
In 2017 I’ve found this company called Online Biz Global and I’ve taken out the loan to join in their Elite package total of AU$25,000 (Attached the email)
Ended up is they just give me some leads to call and try selling the course. Of course it didn’t work and end up asking me to pay more money for more lead. Of course that company is not legit and now if you check the site it doesn’t exist anymore! I didn’t make any extra money to pay off that $25,000 and start falling off my payment with the renter. I started to take other loan from other lender to pay for my payment and I wish there was someone there to tell me “That is a wrong idea and worst idea ever”. I ended up falling behind all the payment and been ignoring all the calls/emails from them. Cause of that silly actions I am now in debt of AU$49,866 from two credit collectors and I can even make any payment to them.
At Jan 2021 I decided to get help from “Beyond Debt” company to help dealing with this situation and now I am on the way to paying off my debt. I’ve been paying them AU$231/week and it will takes me 6 years to pay it all off. Been living paycheck to paycheck and I can’t make any saving out of this situation.
At the moment in NSW we are facing Lock down again. My partner lose his job and I am the only income earner in the household as a piano teacher. We are now have only $350 left in our account. I won’t be able to pay rent and beyond debt payment and I don’t know what to do. I starting my Jewelry online shop but it didn’t make any sale yet as well. (lovegems.com.au) I came across this website and hopefully this can help me going through this hard time. Please help me paying my debt off faster and I can move on with my life.
Thank you for taking your time reading this.
Mina T.
https://paypal.me/MinaTamruksa?locale.x=en_AU
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My mother who raised me by herself is turning 60 and I want to get her the birthday present of a lifetime so she knows how special she really is to me.
Hi there everyone,
My mother is turning 60 this year and over the last five years it has been nothing but goddamn rough for her, we moved to this city of Tamworth to be closer with family and get my grandmother the care she need but in the case of our “family” they have all but abandoned us and my grandmother had passed away due to severe blood poisoning at the end of 2016 due to complications caused by an abusive nursing home which happened to be 5 days after her 55th birthday not to mention only a few years prior m grandfather had passed away soon after her 50th. Ever since we moved here, she has been unemployed but not by choice, she has tried her utmost to get a job however to no avail and I strongly believe it is mostly due to employers (around here at least) having a strong bias against older unemployed people who want to work and do the right thing. In all of this however, she has always supported my want and love to do music as it is something she wanted to do in her youth but couldn’t due to taking care of her parents from a young age and her father thinking it to be a laughable and “cringeworthy” path for her to go down but this year, however she said to me, “Christopher, I think I wanna pick up bass but I don’t think we can afford it.” So that is why I am reaching out here. Even through ALL of her struggles, I have gotten luxuries which I far don’t deserve and I honestly think it’s high time I surprised her with one hell of a birthday present. The bass of her dreams is the Spector Dimension 5 bass which runs up around $3100 and since she is new I’ll need to get her an amp so for now I’ll say $3100 is the goal but if we can get more than that then I’ll be beyond thankful because I’ll finally get to repay my mother for all the good she has done for me over the years and all the experiences she has tried to give me. and any money over that initial $3100 will be used to get her an absolutely killer amp if possible or at least a start towards it. I genuinely do mean this when I ask, please if you can, help me make her 60th, the best birthday she’ll ever have.
paypal.me/BassMoney60th
Kind regards,
Christopher
Our Beloved Family Dog Is Extremely Unwell & Without Help Will Have To Be Put Down.
Hi All,
I am not sure if this will even reach anyone but during desperation I will do what I can.
Our Beloved family Dog who’s name is Minty has unfortunately fallen extremely ill. We noticed a ‘bump’ on his nose, which slowly progressed to what seemed like a “Boil”. We disregarded it as he was in good spirits and we thought it could’ve been a big bite. Last week as I went to feed him, I noticed the “Boil” was bleeding and alerted my partner who said it could just be a bee sting that’s infected. My “mum” instincts kicked in and I had to take him to the Vet straight away. We took him to the closest animal hospital, which sadly I was reluctant to do in the first place because it’s $250 consultation fee & I do not have insurance for my pets. I have recently lost my job as of the 13th of May and thus meaning compromising that $250 until I find a new job. The Vet took one look at my baby’s nose & told me it’s in fact a tumour growing. Long story short, we are looking at about $3,000 if not more, to remove the tumour from his nose, inclusive of hospital stays, medications, treatment & Of Course the “after care”.
The Vet explained payment plans are ONLY accepted if I pay a $700 upfront payment, which both my partner & I cannot come up with as my partner lost his job due to COVID (he is applying everywhere with no luck) and I lost my job on the 13th of May 2021, therefore money is so tight.
I contacted Social Services who have submitted a claim for me but That May take 2-3 weeks to be approved. The vet then gave us the second option, which would be to put him down, but the thing is, he is NOT in pain, he is in such good spirits and the Vet even said so and even said we are wasting his life if we put him down because his still got years left in him.
we are sad, truly sad. I know people are facing worse off hardship, I understand, but if I could help my baby boy I wouldn’t be here asking complete strangers for genuine help. I know I may not be able to reach the full target amount but the least im hoping is to get some help for the $700 to set up a payment fee because sadly, the VET will not operate UNTIL a payment is made. We are all thinking this is cruel, I know, but we don’t know what to do. He is our baby, truly. As I mentioned above I really don’t know If this will reach anyone, but our darling baby cannot be put down because of financials, it is so cruel. Any help, at all, would be deeply and greatly appreciated.
God bless each & everyone of you. ❤️
Pay Pal is @ekarabagias
Hand Up For Our Mum
My sister and I are writing this to get help for our mum who is 55 and desperately needs some help to better her life.
Over the past 12 years our mum has had a lot of negative things happen in her life and unfortunately it has taken a toll on her both mentally and physically to the point she now lives in constant pain from a degenerative and arthritic spine and with severe depression.
Our mum suffered through an horrific divorce where my father and his now wife tormented and abused her every chance they got this was inspite of an AVO while this may happen to a lot of people my father and his wife seemed to derive pleasure from hurting our mum and making life harder for her.
We were forced to leave our family home when our father ran up massive debt on a joint credit card and our mum couldn’t afford to pay the house payments alone , mum has had to rent ever since or live with friends while my sister and I attend university.
Mum was the victim of two armed robberies one involving two people with a gun the other she had a hunting knife held to her throat for money from her work place which caused her to suffer PTSD.
In the space of 2 years she lost her brother {our uncle } who was a fire fighter to one of the out of control bush fires on the mountains, her father to a heart attack related to his diabetes , about 8 months after this mum lost her mother to gangrene in the legs from diabetes complications and our much loved cousin to a rare form of cancer following his trip to Mexico for platelets treatments , after this she understandably never seemed to recover to her normal self .
About a year after mum also suffered a severe beating out the front of our rental home one night when she went to put the trash out my sister and i were at a share visitation with our father and only saw the severity of her injuries when we came home , she had cuts down her back from a knife ,her right arm was bruised from wrist to shoulder , she had bruises to her face and right side where she was thrown into the brick wall , and she suffered severe nerve damage which caused her to shake like she was having a seizure, the trauma damaged her spine and has left her with permanent pain in her back .
Unfortunately her bad luck has just seemed to compound with a fall down a set of stairs at a friends home where she tore ligaments and tendons from her ankle and cracked the bone in three places , forcing her to wear an orthopedic hospital boot for 3 months.
The last tragedy mum suffered was loosing her few belongings in the last fires we had on the mountains after that she moved and now exists in a tiny room in a shared house trying to rebuild her life yet again.
We know there are a million people who need your help , and while we tried to keep this short, give important details and still have this make sense I’m sure there are many questions that you have unfortunately 400 words is far to short to cover everything , we are asking that you please kindly and generously donate to help our mum rebuild her life , we would love to replace her cameras , and help her get her own home preferably somewhere warmer than where she currently lives to her with her arthritis pain , furniture , a new car and new clothes, and a badly needed salon visit or makeover to help mum feel better about her self.
Until all this drama in her life mum held down two jobs , did volunteer work running a soup kitchen and charity clothing store , volunteered on Christmas day while we were at our fathers to cook and serve Christmas meals and still hand made toys ,art dolls and bears for underprivileged kids as gifts to donate at Christmas to hospitals and charities.
It is our greatest wish to help our mother get her life back and be happy again for the rest of her life as she can no longer work however she is stuck where she is unless she gets a miracle , We hope you will consider helping our mum get her life back , thanks for taking the time to read this , you can donate at www.paypal.me/jynx45
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