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Hand Up For Our Mum

My sister and I are writing this to get help for our mum who is 55 and desperately needs some help to better her life.

Over the past 12 years our mum has had a lot of negative things happen in her life and unfortunately it has taken a toll on her both mentally and physically to the point she now lives in constant pain from a degenerative and arthritic spine and with severe depression.

Our mum suffered through an horrific divorce where my father and his now wife tormented and abused her every chance they got  this was inspite of an AVO while this may happen to a lot of people my father and his wife seemed to derive pleasure from hurting our mum and making life harder for her.

We were forced to leave our family home when our father ran up massive debt on a joint credit card and our mum couldn’t afford to pay the house payments alone , mum has had to rent ever since or live with friends while my sister and I attend university.

Mum was the victim of two armed robberies one involving two people with a gun the other she had a hunting knife held to her throat for money from her work place which caused her to suffer PTSD.

In the space of 2 years she lost her brother {our uncle } who was a fire fighter to one of the out of control bush fires on the mountains, her father to a heart attack related to his diabetes , about 8 months after this mum lost her mother to gangrene in the legs from diabetes complications  and our much loved cousin to a rare form of cancer following his trip to Mexico for platelets treatments , after this she understandably never seemed to recover to her normal self .

About a year after mum also suffered a severe beating out the front of our rental home one night when she went to put the trash out my sister and i were at a share visitation with our father and only saw the severity of her injuries when we came home , she had cuts down her back from a knife ,her right arm was bruised from wrist to shoulder , she had bruises to her face and right side where she was thrown into the brick wall , and she suffered severe nerve damage which caused her to shake like she was having a seizure, the trauma damaged her spine and has left her with permanent pain in her back .

Unfortunately her bad luck has just seemed to compound with a fall down a set of stairs at a friends home where she tore ligaments and tendons from her ankle and cracked the bone in three places , forcing her to wear an orthopedic hospital boot for 3 months.

The last tragedy mum suffered was loosing her few belongings in the last fires we had on the mountains after that she moved and now exists in a tiny room in a shared house trying to rebuild her life yet again.

We know there are a million people who need your help , and while we tried to keep this short, give important details and still have this make sense I’m sure there are many questions that you have unfortunately 400 words is far to short to cover everything  , we are asking that you please kindly and generously donate to help our mum rebuild her life , we would love to replace her cameras , and help her get her own home preferably somewhere warmer than where she currently lives to her with her arthritis pain , furniture , a new car and new clothes, and a badly needed salon visit or makeover to help mum feel better about her self.

Until all this drama in her life mum held down two jobs , did volunteer work running a soup kitchen and charity clothing store , volunteered on Christmas  day while we were at our fathers to cook and serve Christmas meals and still hand made toys ,art dolls and bears for underprivileged kids as gifts to donate at Christmas to hospitals and charities.

It is our greatest wish to help our mother get her life back and be happy again for the rest of her life as she can no longer work however she is stuck where she is unless she gets a miracle , We hope you will consider helping our mum get her life back , thanks for taking the time to read this , you can donate at  www.paypal.me/jynx45

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REBUILD LIFE

Dear Helper,

My name is Keri 31, and it is with my great down heart and pity to even lift up my head to humbly ask you to support save me and my family from drowning financially while psychologically challenged to keep focus on my personal life and families welfare.

Currently I am unemployed with a debt of USD $ 10,000 that continues to grow on interest every two weeks from a finance company that lended money to me when I was still in employment in 2019.Early April this year 2021, I received a text message from the lender stating that the firm is intending to take legal action against me if I don’t make deposits and  provide a repayment plan. This has put on massive pressure on my shoulders.

It was a big blow for me and our family when my husband Jeff 31, who is the main bread winner could not be physically fit to attend work normally due to his health causing him to forcefully resign in late December 2020. He is physically unfit to move and give the support to maintain our welfare and secure our two children’s (Rozelle 5 and Denzel 1) future. He doesn’t even look well to attend another employment in the near future with his current condition and I’m deeply worried about myself and our two kids future if anything awkward might happen sooner. We always pray and thank God for seeing each new day with this trying times that we are in.

We left the company’s town house and moved to his home village and built a small bush material house with his final entitlements. However, it is very challenging because our house is still incomplete with water and electrical connections and land title for our permanent home dwelling. Due to some of our budget used in part payment of our young daughter (Rozelle 5 ) school fees, daily consumption of food, transport, phone credits and Jeff’s medicals to keep us going daily has depleted all our budget from his (Jeff’s)  final entitlements.

It is past one month now that our Lawn grass around our house has grown into a small bush filled with mosquitoes during the rainy season and we didn’t purchase any new clothes for three months now since February 2021.

We prioritize whatever little we have on food, transport, phone credits, Jeff’s medicals and our young daughter (Rozelle 5 ) lunch meals .

Our bush material house is now in question to last more than 2 years , since the rainy season small bugs are drilling holes on the stilt woods causing dust to fall from the ceiling therefore the need for building a permanent house with treated materials is now another great concern.

I truly need a financial support where I can clear my debt, solve household affairs, build a new decent home, Jeff’s medicals and a start up capital to do a mini buy/sell retail market at home to sustain me and my family financially.

My total cost of need will be quite more and I feel bad to ask for more for something that I never really work hard for out of my own sweat and give burden to anyone for helping me. A sum of USD $ 50,000 will greatly wipe away this debt burden and help me rebuild me and my family’s future.

I will use this on the following break up below;

1. Loan repayment – 15,000

2.Child school fee – 3, 000

3. Food, household  items and clothing – 2,000

4.Transport – 1,000

5. Phone credits – 1,000.

6. New house – 20,000

7. Mini  buy/sell retail home market – 5,000

8. Water and electrical connections – 2,000

9. Jeff’s medical – 1,000

It is not my intention for you to prioritize my request but I honestly tried every means to seek support and did not succeed in any even my own parents , relatives and possible people I know of in my circle.

I know the world is full of many situations like this but I thank you for sharing your time understanding my life that any support you can give is a great blessing to me and my family that will change the course of our future.

I deeply thank you for your great heart and pray that God continues to bless you tenfold for helping others in need.

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Need help to pay off Uni and Tax

Not long ago, i was working as an electrician and life was going fine, i was at TAFE studying and i was really happy. Not long after till somehow i went to get Sushi one day and my card was not working when i tried paying for it, so my brother had to but in. So, we went to catch a bus home, i was left with my head scratching thinking maybe it was just the card acting up. I had no online banking at the time, so i could not check how much was in my account. Also, my foolish self did not think it was necessary. So, i called the bank a few days later as i tried paying for my OPAL card to recharge it with money as i was trying to go city. They confirmed that i had nothing in my bank account, which was impossible as i could not have spent the money, i know for a fact i barely spent 2k, as all i bought was Mcdonalds once in a while, while i made 21,000. I later found out, someone close to me, as they admitted it to me with my brother as a witness, someone did this in my family and they refuse to pay me back the money, giving me fake promises, and im left in this mess financially and depressed, not being able to enjoy my life, thinking everyday about how i worked so hard to be able to enjoy none of it. Thanks for those who took the time out to read, i wish you all a good day. Till this day i also wonder how it got stolen because i never gave any information out, in the image this is proof i made that money. I’m left with 5k to pay in tax too and i have no job right now.

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Help raising the rest of funds needed for new vehicle

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I’m a hard worker and doing my best as a Single Mum to two great kids, but I need a new car. I have managed to save over the last few years half the amount needed to purchase a reliable car that will see me for at least 10 years, but I don’t have the time to raise the rest before I need it.

My marriage broke down after the Australian Bushfires last year, then Covid hit and everything became a huge mess, I’ve suffered family violence and am just trying my best to be a good Mother and keep my head above water so to speak with paying the Mortgage on my own as well as the rest of the household bills.

I just need to catch a break. I’ve never asked for anything in my life, always worked since I was 13 years old, never been in this situation before.
Thankyou to anyone who can help me. paypal.me/Wendy599

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Drowning in debt

Hi, I’m Brittany.

I’m 27 who has multiple sclerosis(MS) for short. I was diagnosed when I was just 20 years old and just starting my life. My hopes and dreams shattered into a million pieces that day and since then, everyday has been a struggle. I have no children and live with my mother who helps take care of me when I need it. But I have found myself neck deep in debt. I receive a disability pension but it’s not enough to cover the $6000 debt I have. My health is deteriorating faster than I ever expected and also my mental health is being affected servely too. It keeps me awake at night wondering how I’m going to pay it off or being taken to court which I wouldn’t be able to afford.

I live in Australia and I have called many places to get some sort of help but no one will help me because I’m on government benefits. I’ve been trying to pay as much as I can with the $849 I get every fortnight but it’s hardly making a dent. This is my last resort and hoping that someone with a good heart  can help me.

I hate asking for help from strangers but this time I’m really in need of help.

If someone is in a position to help me, I will be forever grateful and so appreciative. I’m a genuine person and not leading anyone on. Just a desperate cry for help

So if you think that you’re in a position to help this girl out, I would cry tears of gratitude.

Thanks for hearing me story.

Kind regards

Brittany Knight

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How am I a college graduate and homeless?

How did I end up here? I am a college educated, successful business owner. Or am I? You see I have never had an easy life. But the last few years, I just can’t take anymore!! My 3 sons were killed (18,16 &3 yes 3 years old) in a horrific incident with a tanker truck that exploded and they were gone. Just like that. Never another hug, kiss, or I love you again! How do you live through that? They were on the way to pick their sister up from school as they did all the time. But God wasn’t ready for her, I can only say thank goodness! I really don’t know where I would be without ALL of them. That was just the beginning…  I got cancer. Not once, but twice. Surgery after surgery. Chemo. Treatment after treatment. My daughter who just lost over half her family now scared she was going to lose her mom also. It was awful! All for it to only return a year later. It’s been hell to say the least. Now here we are. I’ve had COVID- and was hospitalized for a while. Got behind on EVERYTHING. Lost the business and now out home. I mean how can you run a business and pay the mortgage laying in a hospital bed barley breathing?  We’ve now been evicted without notice (YES, they can do that now! The govt. does what they want and we don’t matter). I can not explain the feeling of seeing your only child crying and hurting after everything else and now seeing everything we own laying broken or in big trash bags piled on the sidewalk in the rain in front of what you thought was going to be her forever home.  We have nothing. We were not allowed to go back and get any clothes or anything. Not even the boys ashes or belongings. Does anyone even care? How did I end up here? I never in a million years though I would be a person starting from room to room or in our car!! Never!! We’ve lost it all. All I have ever wanted to be was a mom and own a house that my kids didn’t have to move from place to place! I can’t seem to do either. Cancer.. sickness and death = Homelessness and desperate! If you can help in anyway, please let me know!

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Life has been financially difficult for my family

To whom it may concern,

My name is James and I am not the type of person to complain about life, I believe that I am fortunate to have a roof over my head and a family that cares.

However, I just can’t stand to see my parents struggling.

My dad suffers from several medical conditions which have prevented him from working for almost 2 decades. He pays all of the bills at home despite no real income. He is living off what he saved earlier in life and this is slowly running out.

My mother has enormous credit card debt due to poor life choices in the past. My mother works full time to put food on the table and most of her pay goes towards the mortgage and other expenses. She has hardly any money left after all expenses are taken into account. It is hard to see this happening to her as she suffers from a very bad back and has no feeling in her left leg.

I am studying full time and am trying to save up to buy a car as I am 22 years old and need to be able to drive myself around.

My goal in life is to have a positive impact on others and help others. That is why it is hard for me to ask for help. However, I hope to help my parents financially as best I can.

Any help you can provide would have such a positive impact on myself and my parents.

My goal is to help my mother pay off her debts so she can start saving up money and have a sense of security.
My goal is to help my father to enjoy a better quality of life as he deserves to enjoy doing what he loves for a change without worrying all the time and suffering from depression.

I hope to one day pay forward your generosity and help others who need it. Thank you and God bless you.
Feel free to email me if you want to discuss.

James

paypal.me/jbarsha

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Help us.

 

Hi Everyone,

I hope you are doing good!

Thank you for taking your time to read this. I would like to tell you about my partner and myself. How we are trying to get a second chance at life. And when i was looking for options i have seen this one. I hope this will warm your hearts and thanks for everything in advance. Ok so the story begins when i met this guy amazing looking and most amazing person that i know. We are a couple from Australia. It was love in first sight. We met in 2018. I loved him very much and we started dating. At the time the only thing i did not know that my partner was started using drugs 2-3 months before i met him and he was struggling. Don’t get me wrong apparently before even he started using and having a problem. He lost his job because of being discriminated and had a fight with one of other employee. At the end they both get fired. He was working in Logistics. Because he lost his job and was going through rough times a friend of him introduced him to it. Yet soon after with all the stress and struggle he was going through. He got addicted. Soon after when we first started dating. 2 weeks later i learned the whole story when the craving kicked in. I was shocked but i was also in love. I can’t let go of a person that i love. I promised that i will be there for him. I had my savings and i had a good job. I was in the travel industry. Soon before i could realize my partner become more agitated failing to find job and being in this situation. Even to the degree that his car soon to be taken away because of the debt. While i was handling both him and my job i was also getting stressed way too much. Some days failing to work properly. I had my savings and at that time i thought that i could help him with money issues. Yet both my debt and his grown bigger as he got more and more anxious without a job and the drug cravings getting worse. Soon I also ran out of money the savings i had trying to solve my and his debt. And the 1 year that we are in a relationship everything was going worse and worse as he was now living with a friend who does drugs and that i don’t live alone. Some people may say that i should have left or ended the relationship. Sorry i am in love and i always believed in him. Despite everything there came 2019. And with 2019 the stress of my life and burden took away my job. As we ran out of money we tried to do Airbnb and side jobs to keep float. Always being behind on rent and the money demand increasing from my partner. And that night came. He started asking me questions and now started to think that i am a person who is scamming or stealing his money and i am the reason that he lost everything. Day by day it gone worse. The two person who loved each other now dark times have come. At that time i did not much know about drugs and what they can do. One night as he was again asking me if i am stealing from him to the degree if i was in a international scam organization. That night got psychical. I ran to the police without my phone as he confiscated it. The first time I went to the police and explained they already knew what was going on. But I also didn’t wanted to go to police for a long time because I can’t see anything happen to him. So i decided to keep silent and work it out. And that’s when everything was lashed out. Apparently he was cheating on me with someone else for over half a year with drugs involved. And with his paranoia grew he saw me as enemy. I even had to take out loan to cover for him. That was the worst night of my life when i learned that. I cried for so long. All my 2018 and 2019 got wasted. I lost everything. I lost myself and he got more fallen into cravings. And one day he came to my door. He got aggressive and nothing I say made him believe that I loved him more than anything. And then what happened next was either the end or the new beginning. Police came with a Mental Health Care officers. Which on spot was manage to put him under the Mental health act and take him into a mental hospital. I got devastated but I knew maybe the hospital is the one thing that can help him. With the level of his aggression they put him into the highest level. And medication, craving and all the struggling process started. First I could not visit him as I think he would hate to see me thinking I put him there with his paranoia. I still visited him hospital after a week later. And then that day close to end of 2019. He first time said sorry to me. I saw the man I fall in love with again. The medication the doctors were giving were slowly started healing him. But still he was not allowed to leave. When he said sorry to me all my 2 years of struggle was there but I promised to be beside him. And I visited him almost for 2 months everyday between 10am -8pm visitor hours till he got fully healed. For him to not feel alone. Because i knew when he saw me he smiles. Struggling 2 months of rehab he was totally clean and the medication he was taking is working. I forgot the mention the first time i went to see him. His doctor said have I heard of Pychosis. That’s what happened. He got paranoid and it targeted me as I am the closest. After struggling 2 years when he got out of the hospital we came home. I am a person that always believe in second chances and people deserve love. To judge is easy. To love is hard. Since that they after so much struggle he is a recovered drug addict and I have gone over anxiety disorder with this incident.

 

Now Since December 2019. We are a happy couple. We struggled love each other and made it happen. Now trying to fullfil one of our dreams. Open up a plant shop show people that you can achieve with hardwork. The business that we are trying to build and the debt we are trying to clear from our past. I wanted to share our story to help us get a second chance in our life. From paying to rent the paying the car debt, The loan and now that we want to register a plant business and get a retail store. Thank you for anyone who stayed for this long to read.

 

I would really love to see people help us achieve our dreams.

 

You can see the couple of photos that we have. I did not put any hospital ones as I don’t want to relive it. If any questions I can give you our wanna be plant shop name. Which we currently operating from the smallest old unit and send more photos. For the sake of us I have not given our names. As we are a bit embarrassed.

 

Where you can donate and help our cause is below.

 

Anything is appreciated.

PayPal: kader10001pr@gmail.com

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Stuck in Australia and struggling with bills

Hi, im a 21 year old from England. I came to australia on a work visa nearly two years ago and met the love of my life. Due to covid i couldn’t return home and unfortunately i have had to apply for a tourist visa as i also don’t want to leave my partner. We are hopimg to apply for a spouse visa as i will be allowed to work and support myself again, unfortunately bills for simple things like food and electric have been hard to pay on top of rent which im badly behind with. Any kindness is appreciated thankyou.

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Please help us from getting evicted

 

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I am a single mother of two beautiful boys who has previously had to leave my husband due to domestic violence. We live in a small rental in a nice quiet neighborhood but I am not sure how much longer that will be for. Due to breaching an intervention order we had placed on him my ex husband is now in jail and all child support payments have ceased due to him not having an income. My income is minimal as I only work part time and recently have found myself in financial hardship. I have fallen behind in my rent as I have only been paying what I can afford still trying to leave a portion of my fortnightly income for groceries to feed my two growing teenage sons. While struggling to try to pay rent I have had issues with our only family car. It has major issues with the radiator and that has caused damage to the engine and being on a part time income I found myself unable to afford the repairs required to fix it. I am unable to get a loan or source of credit due to defaults on my credit file relating to my prior marriage which as stated before I had to leave due to domestic violence. I am requesting any help at all to pay our rental arrears and possibly repair my car as I need it to get to work due to my work hours not allowing public transport to be an option. Please help me and my son’s if you can because at this point in time we are at risk of being homeless. I normally would not ask for help in this manner but have become desperate and do not have anywhere left to turn. I have no family close by and those that I thought were friends have been unsympathetic and unsupportive of the position myself and my son’s find ourselves in and I really do not know where else to turn. I know it is a long shot but I hope and pray for my son’s sake that someone out there reads about our position and has the compassion to understand that my son’s do not deserve to be homeless and although I am doing my best working as much as my employer allows me at this point in time I really am unable to help our position on my own. Thankyou for taking the time to read this, I hope an angel guides someone to our plight and we can get the help we have been unable to get from anywhere else

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I need a hero!

Where do I begin..

Ive attempted to write this several times and it keeps turning into a biography of my life so I’ll just tell you a bit about myself and skip ahead 20 odd years.

My name is Z, I’m in my early 30’s and I live in Australia. I’ve suffered from depression and anxiety most of my life and have never been able to keep a job.

In 2014, I was on the edge of being homeless after my mother moving away to live with her fiancé. I had been staying with a friend & his family and then with a random guy. I started casually hooking up with a girl who eventually convinced me into a relationship and to move in with her and her family. Things seemed perfect but shortly after I had moved in her personality completely changed. She became possessive and controlling to an extreme extent. I wasn’t allowed to get a job, go on social media or even watch movies with females wearing bikinis. If something came on tv that I wasn’t supposed to look at she would interrogate me to the point that it felt like a wasn’t a person anymore. It honestly felt like psychological torture. I tried to leave several times but she would barricade the door with her body or in some cases, slit her wrists right in front of me. I was trapped. So I just stayed at dealt with it. I lost what few friends I did have since I wasn’t allowed to socialise with the unless she accompanied me, which they understandably grew tired of.

About a year or two into our relationship we moved out into a home owned by my family. Things were good for this circumstances I was in. Her stepfather even got me a job that I was “allowed” to do. I was a bin delivery guy. I would drive around the city and deliver and repair bins for people. I never enjoyed working since I’d never found my passion, but for once I didn’t hate work. I got to drive around all day and wasn’t stuck somewhere under constant supervision getting anxious and uncomfortable. I’d was so proud of myself once the year mark approached. I’d actually held a job for a year. I was living comfortably and despite having no free time I was happy. Not long after that though I discovered that my girlfriend had been talking to someone she met playing games online. Well this crushed me. After all the crap she had put me through. I took a weeks leave from work to compose myself and work things out with her. The day before I was due back to work we got a call from her stepfather. Her mum had been taken to hospital. She’d had a stroke. I ended up taking more time of work to help my partner cope with this and eventually I lost my job. To make the situation more difficult, we were pregnant. This is where my debt began. I had a $2000 overdraft limit which I used while waiting for government benefits. I’ve never been able to catch up on that and it’s been 3 years.

My little man was born in 2019. We were full of joy to be blessed with a healthy baby boy. Unfortunately his mother started suffering from post natal depression and began sleeping all day, leaving me to look our child. This process still continues to this day. I don’t care at all. He’s my son and I love the little guy and would give the world to him if I could. That said, I wasn’t easy.

My depression was getting severe and I began playing phone games to occupy my mind. I started putting money into games, playing them for a week and then moving on to the next. I wasn’t thinking clearly anymore and was making stupid financial decisions. I went through the small savings I had and was left living pay check to pay check.

I eventually all but killed off this habit however I have never regained financial stability.

COVID hit and I fell into the trap of “buy now, pay later” services to get essentials and pay for bills/rent. I’m now stuck in a loop where I get my fort nightly payments and it’s gone immediately. I’m currently thousands of dollars behind in rent. My utility bills are outstanding and are probably going to be cut off soon. My car recently broke down so I can’t even take my son for a drive or go to the supermarket regularly.

I don’t know what do do anymore. It’s breaks my heart that my son has to live like this. That his father his an unemployed loser with no initiative.
I’ve applied for dozens of loans over the last 2 days and have been rejected every time.

You guys are my only hope now. I feel ashamed having to ask hard working people for help. My own family are ready to kick me out of the house I’m renting. Please, if you can, help me as my family to get back on our feet.

I need a hero.

Thank you all for your time and understanding.

Stay safe in these difficult times.

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Single Mother facing difficult times – facing potential homelessness

Hi there,

This may sound incredibly cheesy but i’m genuinely writing this with tears in my eyes and an anxious heart as I have never been someone to ask for help. I’m truly at a loss for what to do. I tend to overthink and am afraid of coming across as ungrateful and would never take for granted any kind of help.

If you are someone who is generous enough to be looking to donate to someone in need, this is a brief of me, my story and where i’m currently at to be in the position that i’m in asking for a strangers help.

I’m 25 years old, (I feel awful to be in this kind of financial position at my age, especially given how easy it seems to be to make money online in our day and age but hopefully someone will understand.) I for the most part keep to myself and i’m a single Mother to a beautiful four year old boy who i’ve been blessed to have been raising (solely on my own following an abusive relationship with his Father). I’ve never had a substantial amount of money by any means but that’s always been okay with me; a roof over our heads is something I have been thankful for every day and although I’ve always felt that helping someone should not be something to announce, to give you an honest idea of the person I am, I’ve lived paycheck to paycheck and as long as my Son is taken care of, giving someone in need my last 50 dollars comes without a second thought. All i’ve ever wanted to do is to be able to give back and help. I’m unfortunately just really struggling right now.

To the point:

I recently put all that I had into a website that failed (not too smart on my end, I know). Because I wasn’t ever able to get a rental on my low income via “regular real estate”, and was always turned down for share houses having a young child, my only option was to search for a private landlord. I began renting the place that i’m about to be kicked out of going on 6 months ago. (she put us on a 6 month lease and never submitted the papers or did anything formally). Has changed the costs of living without prior notice and seemingly whenever she feels like it and it has been not only a headache but heartbreaking that she’s just been taking advantage and all I truly care about is looking after my Son and giving him somewhere stable to live. I have always made sure that he eats, etc. But she has just let me know that we need to be out in less than two weeks from today. As i’ve been living paycheck to paycheck I don’t have the money to arrange moving costs (even if it’s just a van) but more importantly the money to secure a bond for wherever it is that we go. I’m terrified and anxious. We don’t have family to stay with which I know would be so ideal. Absolutely anything, no matter how small, would mean more to me than I could even put into words and will hopefully give us some security. I know that so many people have it worse off but if you do decide to help, I can promise you I would have the kind of gratitude to where I will keep in touch (if this enables me to) and give back tenfold when i’m in the position to. If you do decide to help (cannot even fathom it) please write me and I will by all means express my gratitude without deadlines or limitations. Thank you.

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Turn my dreams into a self sustaining future.

I have a dream… A vision of my future.  Can you help make it my reality?

Though I live in a small unit with limited funds and debts aplenty,  I have a plan.  I’m looking for a hand up in achieving my goals that lead to a  sustainable and fulfilling life.

Years ago,  I became suddenly homeless and lived in the bush where I learned how to survive.

When I attained housing and a job again,  I saved my few dollars and started to buy and sell camping and hiking gear that I knew from experience was useful in a survival situation or an emergency evacuation.

I aimed at  increasing my product range to put together fully stocked bags… Ready to pick up and go on an adventure or an emergency situation like a fire.

Unfortunately covid 19 hit and the business funds I had accumulated became grocery bills and car payments.

I’m back at work again now,  but I’m in debt,  and although I try hard,  my mental health keeps me working limited hours,  earning less than I need to restart my business. I  need outside help.

Investing in me will not be a handout.  It won’t pay my bills and put food on the table.  I can do that.  Investing in me is a hand up,  to a better lifestyle and a better me.

The structure and responsibilities that came along with my business created a life I could be proud of,  and the mental stability to deal with all life could throw at me.  It made me happy with myself,  and provided a glimpse into a sustainable future I could be proud of, not just for me but for the people around me.

I’m not looking to finance a miracle,  but a start again at an idea I know will work,  because it did before and will again.

Can you help kick-start my vision.

You can donate at

PayPal.me/zeldars

Thank you

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Emergency Funding

My health issues are chronic and complex, including fractures in my spine causing constant chronic pain and discomfort, Crohn’s disease, RA, more recently CREST syndrome shortening my life span a lot. Two weeks ago I had a mini stroke whilst at my sons home in Melbourne. I live 1500km north in NSW and now not allowed to fly. I desperately need funding for a suitable hire car, two nights accommodation and meals, petrol and pay my son the wage he will lose by driving me home. I don’t drive and medical advice is that I have someone with me. I exist on a disability pension and have no funds to pay for getting me home

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Struggled Gay Couple needs a Second Chance in Life.

Hi Everyone,

Thank you for taking your time to read this. I would like to tell you about my partner and myself. How we are trying to get a second chance at life. And when i was looking for options i have seen this one. I hope this will warm your hearts and thanks for everything in advance. Ok so the story begins when i met this guy amazing looking and most amazing person that i know. We are a couple from Australia. It was love in first sight. We met in 2018. I loved him very much and we started dating. At the time the only thing i did not know that my partner was started using drugs 2-3 months before i met him and he was struggling. Don’t get me wrong apparently before even he started using and having a problem. He lost his job because of being discriminated and had a fight with one of other employee. At the end they both get fired. He was working in Logistics. Because he lost his job and was going through rough times a friend of him introduced him to it. Yet soon after with all the stress and struggle he was going through. He got addicted. Soon after when we first started dating. 2 weeks later i learned the whole story when the craving kicked in. I was shocked but i was also in love. I can’t let go of a person that i love. I promised that i will be there for him. I had my savings and i had a good job. I was in the travel industry. Soon before i could realize my partner become more agitated failing to find job and being in this situation. Even to the degree that his car soon to be taken away because of the debt. While i was handling both him and my job i was also getting stressed way too much. Some days failing to work properly. I had my savings and at that time i thought that i could help him with money issues. Yet both my debt and his grown bigger as he got more and more anxious without a job and the drug cravings getting worse. Soon I also ran out of money the savings i had trying to solve my and his debt. And the 1 year that we are in a relationship everything was going worse and worse as he was now living with a friend who does drugs and that i don’t live alone.  Some people may say that i should have left or ended the relationship. Sorry i am in love and i always believed in him. Despite everything there came 2019. And with 2019 the stress of my life and burden took away my job. As we ran out of money we tried to do Airbnb and side jobs to keep float. Always being behind on rent and the money demand increasing from my partner. And that night came. He started asking me questions and now started to think that i am a person who is scamming or stealing his money and i am the reason that he lost everything. Day by day it gone worse. The two person who loved each other now dark times have come. At that time i did not much know about drugs and what they can do. One night as he was again asking me if i am stealing from him to the degree if i was in a international scam organization. That night got psychical. I ran to the police without my phone as he confiscated it. The first time I went to the police and explained they already knew what was going on. But I also didn’t wanted to go to police for a long time because I can’t see anything happen to him. So i decided to keep silent and work it out. And that’s when everything was lashed out. Apparently he was cheating on me with someone else for over half a year with drugs involved. And with his paranoia grew he saw me as enemy.  I even had to take out loan to cover for him. That was the worst night of my life when i learned that. I cried for so long. All my 2018 and 2019 got wasted. I lost everything. I lost myself and he got more fallen into cravings. And one day he came to my door. He got aggressive and nothing I say made him believe that I loved him more than anything. And then what happened next was either the end or the new beginning. Police came with a Mental Health Care officers. Which on spot was manage to put him under the Mental health act and take him into a mental hospital. I got devastated but I knew maybe the hospital is the one thing that can help him. With the level of his aggression they put him into the highest level. And medication, craving and all the struggling process started. First I could not visit him as I think he would hate to see me thinking I put him there with his paranoia. I still visited him hospital after a week later. And then that day close to end of 2019. He first time said sorry to me. I saw the man I fall in love with again. The medication the doctors were giving were slowly started healing him. But still he was not allowed to leave. When he said sorry to me all my 2 years of struggle was there but I promised to be beside him. And I visited him almost for 2 months everyday between 10am -8pm visitor hours till he got fully healed. For him to not feel alone. Because i knew when he saw me he smiles. Struggling 2 months of rehab he was totally clean and the medication he was taking is working. I forgot the mention the first time i went to see him. His doctor said have I heard of Pychosis. That’s what happened. He got paranoid and it targeted me as I am the closest. After struggling 2 years when he got out of the hospital we came home. I am a person that always believe in second chances and people deserve love. To judge is easy. To love is hard. Since that they after so much struggle he is a recovered drug addict and I have gone over anxiety disorder with this incident.

Now Since December 2019. We are a happy couple. We struggled love each other and made it happen. Now trying to fullfil one of our dreams. Open up a plant shop show people that you can achieve with hardwork. The business that we are trying to build and the debt we are trying to clear from our past. I wanted to share our story to help us get a second chance in our life.  From paying to rent the paying the car debt, The loan and now that we want to register a plant business and get a retail store. Thank you for anyone who stayed for this long to read.

I would really love to see people help us achieve our dreams.

You can see the couple of photos that we have. I did not put any hospital ones as I don’t want to relive it. If any questions I can give you our wanna be plant shop name. Which we currently operating from the smallest old unit and send more photos. For the sake of us I have not given our names. As we are a bit embarrassed.

Where you can donate and help our cause is below.

Anything is appreciated.

PayPal.me/bandubimla

PayPal.me/bandubimla

PayPal.me/bandubimla

PayPal.me/bandubimba

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