Hello everyone, I am a 27 year old single mother to a 6 year beautiful daughter. I work 3 jobs, and never seem to catch a break. I have recently became homeless and I have been left with major debt that is not mine. Here is a small back story for you. My daughter and myself moved in with my grandmother 3 months ago after we were left alone with nothing, very unexpectedly. My grandmother, my mother, and my uncle all live in this household. My ex-husband decided one day to pack all of his stuff and leave our family after 10 years together and start a new family with someone else. He has completely forgotten about our daughter, never asks to see her, talk to her, take her out, or to even simply ask how she is doing. He shows no care nor emotion for our daughter what so ever. I would like to also let everyone that he was cheating me on and off for the last 7 years. When he left our family, I had no choice but to move in with my grandmother. I personally needed help getting back on my feet. Between daycare during the summer, the debt that is not mine they I was left with and having to pay for, all expenses that I was having to pay to make sure my daughter and myself had what we needed has left me broken, miserable, and stressed out to the max. As stated in the beginning, I am working 3 part time jobs. I barely have time to see and spend time with my daughter anymore. After all of the bills are paid and the debt I was left with are paid for the month, I am left with nothing, which in return puts me in a position of having the borrow money to make it to work for the week, buy groceries for us two, all hygiene and personal care items for my daughter and myself. My grandmother and my mother would help me as much as they could once I moved in, and I appreciate them very much, and appreciate everything they have done to help my daughter and myself get back on our feet. Everything was great for the few months I was there. I received a text message from my grandmother 2 weeks ago which had stated, “I cannot help you any longer, you will need to be out by 07-21-2022.” I was confused, hurt, and even more stressed out after that. I still have not received an explanation as to why they wanted us out of the house. I had to make arrangements for a place to stay and a place to put our items, all in a short amount of time. I found a storage until for our items we cannot bring with us, but we are still looking for a home. We are currently going back and fourth between my friends houses and sleeping on their sofas. I have put my application in with HUD, for assistance on housing. The current wait list is over a 12 months. I explained my situation to the nice desk lady and she put me on emergency housing needed, but reminded me that even though I am moved to the top, the wait list is still 6-8 months before I am approved and found a home or an apartment. I cannot keep sleeping between friends houses on their sofas with my daughter. I feel like such a failure, in life and a failure as a mother. I am failing her and disappointing her every day for not being able to provide for everything like I used to be able to. I was on google searching for ways to get a small personal loan to help pay some of this debt off I was left with and save the remaining left over for what we absolutely needed. I was continually being denied for poor credit and not enough income, then I ran into this website and thought I would give this a try and see if I can find help for my daughter and myself. She will be needing school clothes and school supplies for school starting at the beginning of September as well, which I am worried I won’t be able to afford without having to miss a payment for a bill. She will be in first grade this year! I am asking for help, I am begging for help. My ex has left me with all of this credit card debt, a personal loan, and vehicle debt, all together and in total is just under $10,000. Which I have to make payments monthly for all of it, or my personal credit will get ruined and I will get charged late fees and interest. I am looking and asking for help with money to help me pay off some of this debt, to help me relieve some of this financial stress and be able to care for my daughter and be happy for her. All I want is what’s best for my daughter, and that is for me to pay off some of this debt I was left with, find an apartment to rent or a house to rent until HUD lets me know it’s my turn on the waiting list for a place, buy groceries and not worry about how much money I will have left for fuel money for work and for her daycare and to also be able to afford her school items and school clothing. I have no help from family anymore, I am all alone and working myself to death just to pay the debt off and feed ourselves and have nothing left afterwards. Please help us, any amount is so helpful and we are so greatly appreciative for anyone who is willing to help us. Thank you.
If you would like to donate and help my daughter and myself, any amount given is very helpful, very appreciated and we thank you so much! My PayPal link is