Hello my name is Mal and I live in upstate South Carolina. I am currently stuck in an abusive household with my 7 month old and his father. I met my child’s father around two years ago when I had started working at a restaurant he also cooked at. He was nice and charming at first and remained that way for the first year of dating him. We had moved in and after that first year I became pregnant and his whole persona changed. Suddenly he worked late every night and would lock himself in the bathroom for hours texting other women. I found out a few months in and attempted to break our relationship off. When I presented this news to him he became enraged and started screaming punching holes in the wall. When I tried to leave our apartment he blocked the entry way and started screaming and crying about how he was going to kill himself if I left, he then grabbed a bottle of pills threatening to take the whole thing if I attempted to leave or call the police. Not even 3 days later I found him texting the same girls on his phone as he was before, I attempted to leave in secret while he was at work but he came home early and saw me packing my bag. He grabbed me up by my arm and started cursing at me, when I explained I wanted to end the relationship he hit me across the jaw and then started screaming about how he didn’t want to do it I made him do it. Before I could grab my car keys he grabbed them and put them in his pocket where I couldn’t get to them. What I thought would only be a one time thing turned into months of psychological and physical abuse. After I gave birth to our son I started collecting all my things while he was at work and left to stay with my parents, My parents don’t have a lot of money and liked the idea of me living with someone else, especially with a kid. My now ex has started driving by the house, parking out front, and even in the driveway screaming and cursing at me to talk to him, he’ll even started banging on the doors and windows. He also showed up to my new job and demanded my manager let him talk to me. My parents have some bad lifestyle choices and therefore they’re not at home a lot so they didn’t care about this situation. When I called the police all they did was make a report and left. My parents finally worked up enough sense to talk to my ex about his behavior at their house, while they were supposed to be telling him to leave us alone unless it’s regarding my son. He convinced my parents to allow him to move in with them in exchange for rent money, which they accepted. My stalker now lives with me, I can’t shower, sleep, or eat without him there watching. Everyday i am degraded both physically and emotionally. My life is complete hell and my stress is at an all time max. I’m also scared for my sons life, as he doesn’t keep his patience with my son very well. I have a friend that lives in Stuart Florida that agreed to allow me to move in with them for a month until I find a job and then can start paying them rent. I don’t have much money and am asking for $1000 to cover the cost of gas to drive there, to buy formula and diapers for my son, first months rent, and food for that month once I arrive there. It doesn’t have to be the full amount I’m just looking for anything that will help start me on my way to a new life.
My pay pal is PayPal.me/malessajade
Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this.