So i was in a shitty marriage but tried to make it work as i was obsessed with the fact I had to be a wife to be succesful…. persisted even though desperately unhappy. Had a child and received no support for my PND…cracked on smiling. Put all my savings into buying and renovating a house and thought it would all just work out. One day I snapped and made told him I’m done. Since then for 3 years I’ve been mentally abused and been blackmailed with seeing my son. Work took me away and now i have to go to court for custody. I signed over the house without question for my son and as i needed to free myself… it was worth losing every penny I put into it.
I got left with credit cards and car purchase. I’m making my payments but only minimum on cards and the interest and not seeing it decrease coupled with feeling I have nothing is affecting me.
I don’t want thousands and thousands…Well £15000 . To clear my debts and start saving. To get my head above water to pay for court and to be in a position to eventually have a deposit for my own home for my son.
Clearing this debt will help me start focussing on the important things like getting my son back and building a future for us without the never-ending statements and bank checks.
I will never use credit cards again and want to manage my money as a strong single woman, I just need help to get to s line and start fresh without the debts of my past haunting me.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story x