First off, hello. I thought I’d start on a positive note before explaining my situation :) I am healthy & my kids are healthy- which I’m so thankful for. I have a job(which I love) and work very hard at. My issue is the pressure of my suffocating debt issues. I’m not a big spender- everything I buy is on sale or clearance, which irritates my kids, but I try to be responsible. At this point, I’m absolutely maxed out on every card I have and have taken out a few consolidation loans to relieve the pressure, but every time a turn around, I have to pay for something….and I’m in over my head. My ex husband owes me a house- literally, he’s owes me close to $350k. He hasn’t paid child support I think, ever. We live in separate states & he doesn’t work or works for cash, so there are no paychecks to get money from. People tell me to “throw him in jail,” but honestly, I’m not a person who gets satisfaction out of being spiteful. Call me dumb, but I believe that being spiteful takes far too much energy out of someone who just wants to move forward. With all of that being said, I’m about 50k in debt & am finding it so hard to pull me head above the water. I always tell myself “you’ll get through this,” and I do, and will, but I thought I’d try this. Maybe it will work, or maybe I will look back on this plea one day, and thank god I’m no longer in this position? I don’t know. Call me silly, but I believe in karma. I live my life doing for other people, not because of karma, but because it’s the most rewarding thing I know. I don’t do it for the sake of receiving, because I will always do what I do and be the best & most helpful person as long as I’m able….just hoping someone might realize I’m a good person that just needs a little help with this weight I’m feeling. Anyway, I appreciate you reading- even kind words are better than nothing at all. Thank u @acwski