My story and why I need help to save my family
Hi my name is Jason, I am currently in the army, my life is falling apart around me.
On May 6th I tried to make up missing my wifes 23rd birthday and many others I haven’t been able to be there for by getting her a kitten, so I began searching the internet…. I found one on facebook and when I approached them they asked for £100 and then they took the kitten to a courier service and the service asked for £300 further for refundable insurance.. However the payment was attempted to be done through PayPal the first time and it failed only resulting in the payment going through western union in the end, which they then asked for a further £400 just for a cat carrier box which was air contained even though the kitten was supposedly only 3 hours away.. The payments were all weird with different names and to abroad but apparently the person I was dealing with was still able to collect that money which was weird and I should have trusted my wife when I was told all along it sounded like it was not legitimate. I pushed because I wanted so desperately to get this kitten for her.. I only realised it was fraud after I already lost £400… and just this week I lost £300 to PayPal because of the earlier transaction failing which I was told from PayPal that the payment was still made by them so now if we don’t pay up with the £300, debt collectors will come to our home and take our things until it amounts to that money… No matter how much I explained to PayPal that they’re site said the payment failed and I even attempted to cancel the payment so even deep down I myself knew this wasn’t right.. They still want the money cos they paid this person whoever he or she is on our behalf even though the transaction failed.. Even the bank says that on the system it is not showing that I even requested a transaction with paypal.. Now.. £700 down and my marriage is right on the edge of collapse, losing my job because of how much stress I have caused, we need to be home with family and people who care.. Especially with my wife’s mother being so ill and my wife herself with her disability.. She struggles every day and I feel I’ve ruined everything.. I need help, please if you could donate at least a penny it would be something towards saving a life.. We are on bare minimum wages right now and well.. We have a 1 year old to feed and she’s not well herself, suffering from tummy spasms and that was a fight to get anywhere, finally saw a surgeon just the other day before I had to deploy for a week and leave my wife on her own struggling in pain with our child that we are now going to get a letter for our little girl to finally have a scan.. Even my wife had cancer when she was 14 and that isn’t the only thing.. I should have known and seen that I shouldn’t have done this..
Please.. We are falling apart.. And also we have a loan that we’re struggling to pay off each month just so that we could get married in the first place so my wife could be with me.. I have made mistake after mistake and now I’ve come to the stage where I have to ask for help.. Which I feel so embarrassed about.. But I have no other hope.. May God bless you just for even reading this and listening to my story.. We barely get chance to see any family at all in this army life and it’s taken it’s toll.. Every time we go down we have to pay for a 6-8 hour journey down with the trains as we can’t afford a car regardless of the fact that I have a licence.. Money has not been kind…
I really really hope that there is someone out there who is kind enough to help us.. Please.. Thank you