Hello everyone. If you are reading this, it is because we are on our last resort. I hope in the coming paragraphs we can adequately explain why we are here and get the help and support we need desperately need. I will be frank, we need financial help badly. My family and I are in a hole so deep, i will be in diapers before i can be free of this situation. Please, when you read this, I hope you can find it in your hearts to give as I would do if the roles where reversed.
My Wife and I have been married for a year. We paid for out wedding almost completely out of our own pocket, with small contributions from our families. My wife has 2 daughters that i consider my own. I love them and they love me. We are also expecting our third child (my first) in March. However the situation is thus. Last June, my wife’s ex-husband, named Dirk, was evicted from the House he was living in. Prior to their divorce, Dirk and my wife agreed he should retain 70% custody, meaning we (my wife and I) would see the girls every other weekend and alternating holidays. This was enlarge part due to the wishes of our daughters and their then current living arrangement being better. After Dirk was evicted, be BAILED to Massachusetts to live with his father and left us with the girls. Now please let me be clear. MY wife and I wished nothing more then to have them full time. However Dirk will not pay child support and when he dropped them off, they had not been bath in a week, they has lice in their hair so bad we had to get prescription strength lice treatment for them, and he provided no cloths or toys for them. Currently, he has yet to find a job of any kind, will not sign paper work relinquishing custody to us, nor will he agree to any form what so ever of child support. He is currently living scot-free in New England, worry free and he Seriously NEVER calls them. We HAVE filed with the courts to rectify the current legal situation, and for a heart sum of child support from Dirk, but realistically, this could be a very long process. And we are struggling heavily.
We have applied for and received help from WIC and Medicaid, which is helping significantly. But our finical situation is so bad, we have been told by banks, lending institutions and financial corrections service that the only way to fix our money problems is to win he lottery. Our credit card account is closed, we are 3 months over due on 2 personal loans, our insurance bill wasn’t paid this month and we will lose car insurance next month if we can’t scrape the money together. On top of that, both of our cars need major repairs, stemming from everyday wear and tear. My wife’s car has electrical issues and cannot be driven at night because the headlights dont work and the engine cooling fans are also in need of replacement in addition to a new battery so i dont have to jumper her car off every day. My vehicle is in need of a cooling pump and a new engine cooling fan so the engine done not literally blow up. Our girls are in sore need of clothes, shoes and new toys. I thank the lord everyday for the roof over our heads, but last month the electricity was off for 2 days while we scrounged the money together for the bill. I find my self most nights at the laundry mat because out washer is broken beyond repair and i dont trust our dryer not to set us on fire if we don’t watch it carefully. I am also thankful for our families, who have been supplementing our grocery bill her and there, and will be hosting us for the holidays, even though we can’t afford to contribute much more then the rolls for Thanksgiving.
Now i would like to talk about the lighter side if things. I am not a jobless layabout drug addict begging for a handout. I am employed full time, with full benefits that cut deeply into my paycheck. Our families and friends have been helping whenever and however they can. But, they can’t support up. A few most ago, after telling her company she was expecting a bay in March, my Wife found herself trying a new employee to replace her. The reason the company gave for terminating her employment was “unsatisfactory customer care” (she was the assistant director of a prominent day care). Now it would appear that there are any number of excuses not to hire very healthy, smart and hard working woman, who is obviously pregnant. I’m not sure if I can describe how bad the injustice stings for her. She currently takes any kind of work from home job she can find, owing to the fact we can’t pay for day care, that support wont pay for until January.
WE are scared. Scared that next month we will be homeless. Scared about the collectors knocking at our door. And scared for our children future. We need help so bad i google searched this website. please, mix you can find it in your hearts to help us, please send us some money. I am humbled beyond imagining. I have no hope of being a millionaire. All I want to do is get straight on out bills so we can begin to repair the damage. We are looking to meet a goal of $7000 by the end of the year. That will set practically everything straight and get us the boost we need to not live in fear fo our future. We are begging for money and are at the mercy of your kindness.
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