Hi i am a 47 year old female, who is so desperate to move out as soon as i can but i have got no way out. I been in an abusive relationship for nearly 18years. At some point i was illegal immigrant in UK which made things really hard for me as i was treated like nobody when i lost my job and couldn’t get another one due to immigration status. Things got better when i got my documents though i had to work 2jobs day and night with only 2hrs of sleep for over 2years. In this period i manage to save over 10k as we were planning to buy a house for the kids to have a home. Until one day when we went to his bank to open a shared account as the money i was working for, i was transferring it to his account every Friday, Not up to my SHOCK when we were at the bank the lady turned the screen to us as was explaining something about mortgage, the was £36 balance in the acc. All he could tell me was that he used the money i don’t know for what. Yes i struggled to pay for my kids school expenses, Food, transport etc. Though we do share half half on other bills like rent, gas/electricity, council tax and water, he earn way more than me. On top of that he brought his 21 years old daughter to live with us. She’s on a fulltime job, got student finance money but contributes to nothing towards the bills. When ever i try to ask why is she not living in student accommodation or contribute on rent i get shouted and get silent treated for weeks.
I just want to move out and find a place with my kids as i feel so much used and taken for granted. i work so hard but cant save nothing due to too many expenses which he doesn’t want to help with. He’s got access of my account and knows I’ve got no saving to go anywhere. All that I’m looking for is £10,000 At least pay rent for few months, and start an Ecommerce business of which he knows I’ve done some short courses towards it which i paid my last savings. In this way i will be able to work normal hours so that i can invest some time towards starting this business while i will also be able to pay for my monthly bills and my kids expenses with my wages. I love helping other people despite having nothing. I collect used clothes from my other job which is domestic cleaning and send them to my mum in Africa to share them to the people who has nothing and shipping them has become expensive for me even though it only do this once a year. I also donate monthly to the disabled charity called Scope not a lot but it feels right to know that I’m helping someone. And i hope i can get help which will bring my breakthrough as i believe in working hard and teach my kids same thing. I hoping to return to parttime education soon if things goes accordingly to study Psychotherapeutic Counselling because of the abuse that people are facing on daily basis both children and adults and me being a living testimony of it would love to help them
I am deeply grateful with this platform and all people who are able to help us.
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