I am a father of one , I work full time. I was put on child support when my daughter was in day care, she is now in 1st grade, I helped often, even got a second job. Her mother used the system to take advantage as well as continue her person vendetta against me and doesn’t see the need to adjust anything in her life just take from others. I have asked for a revision to the order stating loss of income, as well she doesn’t attend daycare they denied me even though I have lost my second job due to having to call out a few times to care help watch my child who is sick aside from days she stated was her responsibility in front of the judge, Seeing how you truly can’t trust everyone around your kids these days. Most of my safe, reliable support as far as child care has relocated. I am surviving solely due to overdraft protection each check. I plead for assistance. My job pays well but when they are still withdrawing the amount from checks of when I had child care as well as a second job. It doesn’t add up as well as the increased cost of living.
I am vying for 50/ 50 custody with a court date soon but, with my limited income. It will be hard to find somewhere else to rent and if I lose my place residence it will kill my chances of 50/50. It’s scary to know that within a month i could lose my ability to see my child even less than I am now, with a strong arm with verification backed by the government. I understand that some women need the help but my child mother makes comparable pay as me and has a partner so i think there was false information provided in some form.
I am not a woman basher at all, its just a tough situation to have a kid with someone who doesn’t provide the love, care and attention you want for your child.
If you could provide some assistance I will pay it forward when I able to my Paypal is below.