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Last Updated: September 12, 2023

Struggling Family Man Doing his best, just not good enough.

Good morning,

Thank you for taking time to read my concerns. It is not easy for me to sit and publicly discuss my hardships. There is a part of me who thinks this website is a scam but there is also a part of me that hopes humanity still exist in this world.  My son was born with congenital heart disease and has 6 open heart surgeries. He is defiantly a walking blessing. Thank the lord I was in the Military or else I would be in Debt to medical expenses for the rest of my life. Me and my ex-wife divorced back in 2009. She gave me two beautiful boys and we have a great working relationship for the kids. I ended up giving my eldest son my GI bill so he can go to college. Hès currently a Junior at OSU. Very proud of him. I moved my Parents in with me back in 2010 after they were forced foreclosed on their house. They have always seemed to have a strand of bad luck; my dad calls it the family curse. I disagree with that but non the less I wanted my parents to finally live a comfortable life financially. I have watched them struggle through the years and I wanted to be able to give back a little of what they gave me while growing up. Although wasn’t a lot the most important being Family Values. I couldn’t stand by and watch the struggle. I purchased a home back in 2015 and gave my Parents the master bedroom, I am still single, so it didn’t make sense for me to have the master regardless if it’s my home or not. My kids share a room I know it’s not the ideal situation, but we make it work with what we have. Life is challenging the importance is we don’t give up.

I retired from the Navy back in 2002 (80% Disabled) and have been working full time. I have been laser focused on doing everything I can to get my father to retire and enjoy a little bit of life for himself. I watch him struggle through the physical pain. He is 65 years old, and he goes to work and comes home sometimes at 4 am. I just want to be able to financially give him freedom. Right now, I am spread so thin that I cannot even get his teeth fixed. He does not have many left so it’s getting harder for him to eat. Every day I wake up and think about what I can do to fix all this. I just can’t make enough money fast enough for it to make a difference to help him. I hear him talk about all his hopes and dreams when he retires, thinking to myself that they may never happen… and that bothers me. He deserves to live a few years of his life for himself to travel or go do whatever comfortably with his SS. I have even though about selling everything the house, car and go live in a RV. But i feel that would make things a little more crammed and stressful.

If i could just pay this house and second mortgage off I would have the funds to be able to do more for him and my mother. Lord willing, I will have more time on this planet then they do. So, loans and credit cards I will be able to pay back over time. But i am tapped out on those at the moment. They will need to stay out of commission for a few years, so they are not an option at this time. My ultimate goal is to become debt free for the first time ever in our whole family’s life.  i just want to do everything i can to help my parents get to a level of financial freedom to be able to enjoy what years they have left.

Respectfully requesting $180,838.55 to pay off the mortgage and $79,046.88 to pay off the second mortgage. Thank you for taking the time to read this. it means a lot to me that people out there like you want to help others. i would be one of them but I don’t make enough money to give this kind of gift to. but i do my part for others within my financial abilities.

paypal.me/munchkinpapa1981

Thank You

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