I live on the west coast and the prices of homes are quite high with seemly no stopping in the inflation of cost. I have a steady job with the government as an entry level position and I have been helping family get away from their financial troubles for 10 years. The 10 years have caused my not being able to leave the house in my mid 20’s even though I work full time and have been trying to save since I was in my teens but every time I get a foot hold it is my parent coming and asking me to bail them out for some poor decision that he has made in life. Recently my Parent decided to change his life and move on away from this area to be with the rest of his family he told me this earlier this year but it wasn’t until he got back from vacation in June that he decided to give me the bad news. His news was to give me a deadline to leave the house in the next year to 2 years as he is going to sell everything he owns and move across the country. It was a little bit of a blind side seeing as he drained my saving a little before he left leaving me at square one again.
While he was away on his vacation I also had a long distance relationship come up and live with me for the month, we have been together long distance for 5 years and we have seen each other a very limited amount of times. During her trip here for a month we really hit it off living together (while taking care of the house) that made us decide we need to take the step forward and try to be with each other forever. She is not really cut out for working due to some trauma in her life early on, but together we are slowly helping her get past all of the pain and trauma of this and hopefully one day we can get her to become an active citizen in the world with out of the fear of all of her past happening again.
This is the situation and why I am turning to this to ask for money for a down payment to help bring me and my love together as well as try to make up for all the help I gave my family where in turn they gave me a very unrealistic deadline to be gone. The down payment out here I am attempting to achieve is 20,000 CND$ but anything from 5000$ to 1000$ would be Extremely helpful for getting a jump start on my RE saving of money now that he has promised to back off and let me (get out), Honestly if anyone takes this in to consideration and helps I will be eternally grateful to you thank you.