I’m 25 and live at home in the UK with my dad.
Over the past 18 months my dad has been out of work and caring for my grandparents as my nan suffers with dementia and my grandfather with medical problems.
Within this time I have been paying the household bills as my dad hasn’t had any sort of income, however over the last few months it’s caught up with me and now I’ve got myself into debt my dad doesn’t know this as I don’t want to burden him with another problem while he knows it’s been a struggle for me to manage on my wage and pay the mortgage etc, I know he feels terrible about the situation which is why I’ve offered to help so much and now putting myself out.
However as I have no got myself into debt I haven’t managed to maintain the mortgage payments which could result in us losing our home as we’ve now been summoned with a court order I feel like I have no other option and that even for doing right there is no right done by me. We have no family to be able to help and I have nowhere else to turn, I work for well known company and I feel this situation is starting to effect my work and I can’t risk this happening. Its also effecting my social life and making me incredibly unhappy I feel I’ve got this weight on my shoulders that I’m trying to help everyone and now it’s swallowing me up.
I need £10,000- 15,000 to be able to clear up the bills and clear my debt to get back on track.
I’m preying for a miracle and surely I’m due some luck in my life, I bend over backwards for everyone else and would love for it to be returned one day