Hi, my name is Josephine and I want to thank you for your time to read my story.
I am a 53 yr old woman with 4 grown children and 6 grandkids. I had been in a relationship for 16 yrs until recently.
10 years ago my partner got a loan for me to buy my dream piece of land in the mountains as I was only working casual and he liked me staying at home being a mum so I was unable to get the loan due to not having enough income and also not having a good credit rating.
Over the next 10 years I paid every payment and every cost involved with the keeping of the land myself with him not contributing a cent.
In April 2019 whilst he went on a holiday to Colombia my stressed levels went through the roof and I had 2 heart attacks in 24 hrs and was in hospital for 10 days as I had complications that seen me haemorrhaging and fighting for my life, my partner did not return until 5 weeks later.
Then on May 13th 2019, 6 weeks after the heart attacks concerns for a lump that appeared in my right breast was discovered that I had grade 3 triple negative aggressive breast cancer.
Due to having had heart attacks only 6 weeks early I was unable to have surgery straight away and instead had to start aggressive chemo immediately for 6 months until my heart was strong enough to have surgery. In November 2019 I had a double mastectomy and lost both breast. I am currently in remission and are slowing returning back to my casual job but am still currently on Centrelink as my health is still to weak for full time work.
While this was going on my partner broke up with me leaving to find a rental to live in as the home I lived in with him was his home. I lost everything as it was all in his name and he never allowed me to have anything in writing saying we were in a de-facto relationship.
My problem is that my ex has now told me I need to get the loan that I have gone without to pay even while sick out of his name by 1st July 2020
During all this time I still continued to pay for the land as I had for the last 10 years. My loan still has $58,300 and I have tried everything to get a loan but as I’m not working full time and my illness as cleaned out every cent I had I get getting knocked back from getting a loan. My family tried to help but were unable to due to their own loans etc.
I am now suffering depression on top of everything and am so heartbroken, I’ve given up hope on any dreams.
I have lost my home, my partner, my breasts, my hair, my life. I feel like I lost everything. I’ve lost hope!!!
Losing my land after everything I’ve been through will be the final straw.
Please if your reading this I’m begging can you help me? I promise I would pay you back. I can’t lose the last dream I have I’ve lost so much already including my womanhood and any chance of a future relationship.
If you can donate or help with a loan….anything please
My PayPal account is: PayPal.Me/jvt1710
This is my last chance to keep having a dream