My wife and I are the proud parents of two wonderful boys..One of them is biologically ours while the younger boy is our nephew, but he has lived with since late 2018, so he calls us mommy and daddy..We in the process of getting guardianship..We have almost no support from his biological parents..The father has never laid eyes on him. I have had 6 back surgeries in the past and was hospitalized with congestive heart failure..I still have breathing issues..My wife has had 2 strokes in the last 18 months.. Her first one caused her to be in the hospital for 7 days and then 3 weeks at a rehabilitation center about 25 min from our home. She still has lingering effects..Her most recent one came on July 4th that caused her to be hospitalized for a few days…We have just fallen behind on many bills. Many times I have to use payday advance apps, which most times is still not enough..Even though we both work full time we are still behind all the while trying to get the guardianship done..I do doordash on the side but it is still not enough.I don’t like asking for help, but we need it to take care of our boys..