My name is Aydian. I’m doing this to ask for help because I’ve ran out of options. If you can’t tell by the title i am female to male Transgender. I have been my whole life which hasn’t been easy as I am the middle child of 5 and not accepted by a lot of my family. I’ve been on my own since for years now. The most supportive person in my family was my mom. But financially she couldn’t even support herself. I helped pay her bills since 2008 when I was still in school. My mom opened bills in my name and since then they have been been put into collections leaving me living paycheck to paycheck go negative in my bank account every two weeks just to pay these payments. Since then she has passed away at 43 years old on 1/15/2019 leaving me with all this debt. And I live with my disabled non verbal autistic brother that takes most of my money each paycheck from his medical expenses. I’ve been on hormones for 3 years almost that I’ve been able to pay for because that’s the cheapest part of my transition. I’ve had my top surgery that I’m currently doing payments for on a credit card out of pocket. I’ve tried insurance,credit cards,everything to try and find a way to get the money for my final surgery but it’s to much money for insurance or a credit card. The surgery is $120,000 dollars. Since insurance won’t cover any of it. The surgery is called Phalloplasty. I’ve had an appointment with the surgeon that will be doing it but even he said he only had a couple people have insurance coverage for it. My insurance is through my work which I’ve even tried to ask them to cover it but they denied it. I work 160+ hours every two weeks as a provider for special needs individuals. I work 7 days a week and that does help at all I’m stressed to the point I cry and scream because I see myself as a failure I would never ask for help if I wasn’t needed but so I can finally feel happy in my life and pay for my brothers medical bills I need to get mince covered first
I will be forever grateful of anything.
Thank you to anyone that will help!!!