Are you ready for this:
I’m 49 yrs old been married for 23 yrs, usually story supported his career, raised kids, worked when he wanted, quit when he wanted, was diagnosed with MS over 10 years ago, trying to make a book into a few paragraphs
Found out he was texting and seeing someone 20 yrs younger, text her and told her to stay away called her a home wrecking whore, was served from just that with civil stalking, thought it was a ridiculous joke went in to explain and expected it to be thrown out, instead the judge said she was afraid for her marriage as I said I would tell her husband and afraid for her job as I told her it was against company policy and they both could be fired. Found guilty, nightmare started. Then the state filed harassment charges for the text, went to court to prove they were having an affair and I was just trying to save my marriage.
Went to husbands work to inform him of everything, was super dismissive so I said I was going to introduce myself to his whore so she could see the womans life she is attacking, he tells her I’m there (at a Walmart) mind you that he is a manager at, police come escorted me from store, had breakdown, was the served with criminal stalking which I thought was a joke.
State dropped harrassment charges so they could then use the text and the fact I went to my husband’s store as the 2 instances for stalking, Utah law that is considered stalking, I’ve had to hire a lawyer, my husband keeps calling the local police to have them do wellness checks trying to have me committed, I filed for divorce, he wont leave the house and both of them are constantly trying to break me, I honestly could face a weekend in jail, with no previous criminal record.
He stopped paying house payment, I’ve tryed to get the mortgage company to modify, they will not do it without money down, he buys new clothes, car whatever he wants, while I cant afford my medication, fix my old car, try to pay attorneys, fines, no money for food, but he buys himself stuff.
That is a snippet of what I’m enduring. My house in which I spent 2 1/2 years digging a pond with a shovel by myself for my beloved ducks, gardening has helped me stay mobile and he wants to take it all from me.
I am beyond despair and so tired of them beating me down, I just need help and honestly dont know what else to do.