I was widowed four years ago, after my husband’s death Im 59 & began discovering our 17 year was a complete lie. The life insurance policy he gave me on our 10th anniversary named his sons as beneficiary. His will stated he was in the process of dissolution of marriage, we never ever said the word divorce, I know I married till death do us part. I was his 3rd wife. He was using my social security number from 1st year of marriage stating I had my own business and it was a loss, he kept impeccable records. The envelopes IRS return came in. Copies of checks with my name he forged my signature. 2006 he was using my SS # for his salaried position he also did major sales of over $300,000. That I had no clue, however when questioned his accountant I was told he knew all about and said to me it’s a tax bracket thing. I signed a prenup for him ( I can say I have never taken money from his clip without asking first.) He knew that. I kept my part of the prenup But husband didn’t . It stated any inheritance from my family is mine and not part of the marriage.. well when the check came he opened it and saw the amount. He stopped paying everything and anything for including airline tickets till the money was gone. Wow right he was a sue happy person and he felt if anyone did anything to him his agenda was they’d pay. He reported his ex wife to the irs for not claiming everything she was awarded , 5 years into our marriage she was still taking him to court asking for more money silverware china things bought on vacations they shared yikes is exactly right.
The place he was working till he passed gives a $25k payment to spouse after death and any commission monies that came in. But no… they told me he didn’t sign up for this. It was his brothers company. His son came after me threatening bullying me telling me you cannot take any money out of my dads account, my husband printed both our names on the check he took me to sign signature card to be on accounts they all were fake. His son was the signer. A month later my best friend died. We worked together destination weddings big dinners for annual CEO meetings.. we planned to live together after my husband passed. I let his kids from out of town borrow an SUV they told me they’d bring it back …
OH NO…. Nine months later I completely broke and I wanted so badly to not deal with his family and legally get rid of his name, it’s the kind you have to spell for everyone. I accomplished that November 2019.
after finding the will I found medical papers describing the mass in his lungs and that he passed away at the exact time given to him.
He took me to Aruba to buy the engagement ring. He spent ten days looking at diamonds the one he decided on was $17,000. In Aruba $34,000. In the states. It was gia certified, it had a four prong setting it really showed the stone beautifully, I’m not exactly certain which time he took it to tighten the stone he swapped it for a CZ unknown to me till I tried to sell it. The Christmas after he died my sister sent me a Christmas card saying “ I can’t take all the horrible things that happen to you and so I’m parting ways forever. No ne in family came to the funeral called to see how I was. They all have become selfish and greedy.
I never had children, and my siblings have thrown me away,as I’ve already said. I’m the fourth girl my father was only interested in boys, his opinion on women was barefoot pregnant make my dinner and have a martini in my hand when I get home. He also was a big bookie most of his friends ended up in prison.
my dad also was Lieutenant Commader for the Blue Angels in the late sixties.
Both my parents went to boarding schools and did the debutant thing. All 5 of us were sent to different schools all over the country we really didn’t know each other. I developed into a mature body at a very young age which is a rare disease. At birth I had severe pneumonia for the first 3 years of life.
I sold everything I had, art collection antiques that have been in my family for generations, was homeless for 3 months I got into a small apartment I only had what I could fit in my car. I didn’t care about anything I couldn’t talk to anyone because all I did was cry. How does a person process grief when you have no clue the real person you married. Did he hate me that much? We had a lot fun traveled I happily waited on and took excellent care of him. He didn’t want me to work ( now I know why) so I did fun things made dinners interesting and more he was 20 years older than me.
After my best friend passed away I knew God wanted my undivided attention. I turned it all over to him and I have not taken anything back. It was difficult finding work since not working now 18 years the last job I had I was hired on the spot. The computer application process is awfully challenging, there is age discrimination, I’ve been asked in interviews how many tattoo’s do you have. The racial discrimination is crazy in Arizona, if you’re not Latino or have a. Latino last name many places will not hire you. I came here because of my husbands work.
So I was working 2 months then whalllaaa COVID hit I lost my job and bank accounts. I began getting sick, I get walking pneumonia laryngitis bronchitis every year I have 8 autoimmune disorders/disease it’s now going on more than two years drenching night sweats nausea vomiting everyday losing weight unintentionally horrific pain in my legs. So many symptoms truly to name. Last May in prayer and using techniques I’ve learned in PTSD the trauma of developing early came to the surface… I’ve tried to explain this to my doctors they have never heard of it. I reached out to cedars Sini about an undiagnosed study of adult precocious puberty patients. It’s so devastating my childhood stopped at seven I was treated like a child but expected of adult outcomes which I couldn’t provide ( I didn’t learn or understand myself since I’ve learned this and this makes my whole terrible life make sense. When I matured and growth plates closed after they do on completion of puberty all things you learn as a teen , I didn’t because my brain also sealed and now. Every evaluation I’ve had testing at a third grade level makes even more sense to me. And since I wasn’t diagnosed they didn’t MRI my brain at seven years old they didn’t find the tiny tumor that triggers the pituary gland and it released an over abundant amount of estrogen my thoughts and actions were fueled by estrogen, also causes depression and more. They didn’t X-ray my left hand to see the age of my bones I’ve also learned add 9 months to every year you developed early so I’m close to 65. I’ve been having so many health issues I did 23 & me last November, it came back in January and I’m an identical twin, my dads mom was and had a twin, there isn’t a twin to my knowledge however if I’m carrying her Precocious puberty happens. My primary thinks I’ve made this all up. This is the truth the whole truth. God is revealing g hidden secrets and providing evidence. I’ve been sending for medical records since birth , the birth records have been purged so they say after much time on hold. I had an emergency hysterectomy at 39 and cataract surgery at 44. Both were very early for my age. I’ve waited 8 months for my follow up appointment with neurologist and still nothing. But every time I was diagnosed with another autoimmune thing Human Arc would call me for disability. I never followed through. April 7th I pulled out my grandmothers photograph album from 1930 after she graduated from the university in Paris France. ( name escapes me ) I have her. Diploma. Well I’m the back of album as a Manila envelope with the word records on it. I opened it fourteen or so pages of medical records of mine dated 1973 from an immunologist, I was told I had allergies. As I read page after. Page the doctor wrote I was diagnosed at three years with Hypogammaglobulinemia, at the time of diagnosis prognosis was 12 years old I’m understanding it affects myeloids and bone marrow. May 2021 I was tested for many systemic diseases vasculitis chronic myeloid leukemia, all test inconclusive and that’s it. I have progressive peripheral neuropathy asthma Hashimoto’s Epstein Barr eosinophilia esophagitis, the 1973 papers indicate a nasal smear 30% eosinophils, I haven’t had another yet. My thyroid keeps going up for over a year and my primary thinks I’m not taking my medication he’s not looking at anything else. My last appointment with him I asked for a second opinion referral for the recent findings of a 1.7mm cyst in left cavernous which butts up to pituitary gland. 1973 paperwork also states a 90% blockage in the left side of cavernous. It also states that my condition needs to be monitored regularly forever. And I should have a radial diffusion for white & gray matter in ten years. I was getting allergy shots sent to boarding school the first year I thought they were for pollen dust ragweed NONO they wre for my immune system so I wouldn’t get sick. After the first year my dad told me I didn’t need them anymore. I was never told about any of this , my dad didn’t care for me and the things he did for my sisters gave each one gold cross a gold braclet when he’d travel he’d get each one charm . He didn’t do any of that for me because he thought I would pass away around 12 years old I didn’t and then he stopped the shots the medical papers also state all records have been given to mr. Scott and this report is all that’s left. The pneumonia at birth caused brain damage the estrogen caused cognitive issues and my cognitive level has been going down entire life . With ADHD which now I believe I had since a toddler. focus is a challenge. I haven’t been working because I’m fatigued nausea vomiting, no appetite …. I’ve completely run out of money and have received a 30 day eviction notice. My car is paid for my insurance is due on the 20 th if April. I’ve lost WiFi so I took my tv down put in the box and sold it. My cell phone service will most likely be disconnected by May. I can’t take the sunlight my eyes hurt and are dry, the heat increases the nausea. I’ve been praying and healing from the husband mess I really did not see any of this coming at all. I’ve tried to contact my siblings I’m so rejected and phone blocked I can’t do it anymore. I have no friends because I traveled with husband for work. It’s credibly hard to make friends at my age and in the world we live in today I don’t believe in social media I’m wanting to somehow someday move north to big sky country. Yesterday I was at the social security office filling out my application because of human Arc they only call if your potentially terminally ill. ( I didn’t know that) it’s been a completely different kind of year wrapping my head around all this uncovered information and at the same time I was so happy the day I learned about the precocious puberty and the estrogen because I thought I was addicted to sex , and not so smart. It was all because of this disease which by the way I’ve also read people are so traumatized by this they never find out till autopsy families like my own throw away there sister because of the early sex that leads to so much the brain damage I didn’t know about while everyone picked on me made fun of and bullied me when I should have been cared for. I swear on the Bible this is the whole truth . I’m totally understanding and feeling
The truth will set you free.
thank you kindly if you’ve read this story that seams right out of a book . I’m grateful.